Valiant Updates

5 incredible years!

2011-11-02T18:42:00.001-04:00

Oh how I love this time of year...

5 years ago-not so much. But every. single. year. since- LOVE!

Yes, THIS happened 5 years ago and changed MY world forever.

Changed my faith.

Because I now believe in miracles.

Changed my prayers.

Because I know my prayers are powerful.

Changed my heart.

Because Owen has melted it.

Changed my everything.

Because I can't imagine my days without him in it.

I'm so happy to be saying "Happy 5th Birthday Owen!"

There were deep, dark times when I thought this nor any of the 5 years before now would come. And now-look at you!

You are a preschooler! And oh, how you love Busy Day Preschool!

You love crafts so much...you love all things creative, in fact. You love to dance, and sing (and with no formal training, even;-). You make crazy good coloring pages...and you even mastered writing your name as Owen instead of OMen! Ha!

The last 6 plus months have been super exciting as your physical growth has EXPLODED-off the charts! I can't wait for the official 5 year well-kiddo check-up next week, but for now, I'm guessing about 32 pounds and 39 inches...yes, seriously! That puts you on the growth charts! For the first time -EVER! You have a lean, muscle-y body that amazes us to watch!

You decided to try your skills as a barber this past spring...it might not be the career path you should pursue:

So, you ended up with my not-so-professional buzzing skills:

Oh yeah...sorry about the undies pic-I apparently didn't take many pics of you with this buzzed 'do...whoops. But, it was short! And the really weird thing is, when it grew back, there was a weird large area at your crown that is seriously lighter than the rest of the hair...

Well, you can't see it super well in this pic...but trust me-it looks like I tried to dye it;-)

No, not like this...silly!

You also got to go on your first cruise...that was super fun times, huh? I know you remember the swimming pools the most. And then, probably, the hot cocoa every night and the face painting in adventure ocean. It was a great time and fun way to end the summer (and your 4th year of life;-).

You are looking forward to playing t-ball this spring. You haven't participated in any other organized sports yet (well, except for that short stint in the Lil' flipz trampoline class...but we try to forget about that epic fail;-).

You love to play dress up and pretty much anything with Griffin. He calls you O-nen. And I love it. I sometimes call you O-nen because it's just so tute! (Yep, you can't quite say your C's so you replace it with T's;-).

You sure have come a long way! From this:

to this at one year:

to this at 2 years:

to this at 3 years:

to this at 4 years:

and here we are now at 5 years:

Holy face paint Batman! I sure wonder what the future holds for you!?!

But I sure welcome it with open arms!

First year under our belt...

2011-05-26T17:16:00.014-04:00

The Valiant Academy has just finished its' 2010-2011 school year with 2 students enrolled...

Above TJ last day of 5th grade
Below TJ first day of 5th grade

Above: Jake last day of 1st grade
Below: Jake first day of 1st grade (isn't it cute that he picks monochromatic outfits?).

Just for posterity sake-it was a great year! Jake was done with a whole grade level of math in 6 weeks and then moved slower through 2nd grade math to finish out this year. TJ was done with a grade level of math in 8 weeks and then went onto 5/6th grade to finish out the year. Both TJ and Jake completed 2 levels of spelling as well. The other subjects they finished in their grade level this week.

This summer, I would like to do Spanish with them as well as continue Math Facts with Jake. They will also continue handwriting (Jake learned cursive and has lovely penmenship) by writing Bible Memory verses. And I also plan to have Jake learn (and TJ review) the 50 states and their capitols and some facts like location, etc.

We did lots of fun things this year including a heavy emphasis on frugality and nutrition (coupons and shopping;-), numerous trips (and check-outs and returns) to the library, Space day at Purdue, a fire safety show at Jeff HS, the Erie Canal and conference center tour, Purdue agriculture park for a helicopter/lifeline landing and tour, Indiana State Museum trip, a tour of our local USPS, the nearby fire station tour, and lots AND lots of doctors appointments! We also enjoyed a fabulous vacation-a cruise to the Caribbean: visiting and learning about Belize City, Cozumel, and Costa Maya.

The boys were also very active in diving lessons at Purdue with Boiler Diving Academy up until April, at which time they both began Spring/Summer baseball leagues. Lord willing, Jake will move onto All-stars in June. We are hoping to get back into diving later this summer.

And that pretty much sums up a great 1st and 5th grade year for Jake and TJ!

I am looking forward to a more relaxed June and July before starting 2nd and 6th grade at home again. Owen will attend Busy Day preschool 2 days a week in the afternoon come August. Griffin will probably continue to drive me crazy sneaking food from the pantry, pulling DVD's and CD's out of drawers, and pouring glue, and other sticky substances out in unmentionable places.

♥ Merry Christmas 2010!!! ♥

2010-12-23T20:50:00.003-05:00

Valiant Family Christmas Letter December 2010

It’s hard to believe another year has come and gone (and that it’s only the beginning of December and I’m already writing this year’s Christmas letter!!!). I’m super excited for this year in review, even though it hasn’t been a super exciting year per se…so here goes:

Griffin-our lil’ man is now 19 months old. He’s a fun, cheerful addition to the Valiant brood…always making us laugh with his dancing and babbling. Griffin loves to give kisses and hugs and sings along with songs on the radio. He loves to play with his brothers and he lets us know when he’s been wronged by raising his voice a bit! Griffin has an incredibly content nature (so far) and is definitely easy-going with our crazy, busy family.

Owen-our other lil’ man is now FOUR years old!!! Can you believe it? Our little miracle boy never ceases to amaze us with his crazy antics, quick wit, and huge vocabulary! He has continued to love to sing and dance, though we don’t have him in any formal musical programs. He loves attending his Sunday school classes and WNKoF (Wednesday night kids of Faith) and learning about God and Jesus. If you stop by our house, he’ll likely invite you to play in his room (which he shares with Griffin) and you’ll probably be roped in to a make-believe world of playing house, doctor, school, etc. Owen is learning his letters and how to write his name and our really big news is that he was officially potty trained this summer just in time for him to attend Vacation Bible School for the first time! He loved it (and Mommy & Daddy love one less in diapers!).

Jake & TJ-best buds and now classmates too! Jake had his 7th birthday in September and TJ had his 11th in November. This past spring, TJ was introduced to a less ‘popular’ sport and we decided to enroll both TJ and Jake in the Boiler Diving program at Purdue. Both boys have LOVED the exercise, fun, and opportunity it has provided. We have enjoyed learning more about the sport and watching the Purdue athletes compete as well. The boys aren’t at competition level quite yet, but they both are working hard and having fun! In May, Jake graduated from Kindergarten at Faith Christian School and TJ ended a five year season of his life attending school at FCS. TJ enjoyed playing baseball this summer (something he hasn’t done for a few seasons) and both boys continued diving as well. Jake took swimming lessons (since he really wanted to be able to do more than the dryland portion of the diving classes like TJ) and learned to swim really well, really fast! He went from having a fear of even jumping off the side of the pool in June to doing flips off the 3 meter platform just 3 months later! This summer the boys went on an unprecedented 2 week trip by themselves to Wisconsin to spend time with “Grandma Becca” and family…and to FISH! TJ is especially into fishing! The kid dreams in fish. They had a great time and we capped off the 2 weeks by attending my brother Andrew ‘s wedding reception. Welcome to the ‘crazy’ family Amanda!

This back to school season was quite different for our family…we went from getting up and driving the boys to FCS every day, to ‘simply’ walking to the kitchen table! Yes, we are homeschooling now. It’s been a challenging but rewarding 4 months and the boys have done excellent! Both TJ and Jake flew through an entire grade level of math already and they have both just jumped a level in spelling as well. We don’t have every subject mastered (curriculum choice-wise) but are enjoying the ride. The field trips are definitely the best part! Oh, and both boys have read several books too…ok, several is an understatement-we tell them often how blessed they are that they have a love and gift for reading.

Tim-is still working at Walgreens. He’s in his 13th year with the company actually. He has been at his current store since it opened 2 1/2 years ago. When not at work, Tim keeps busy playing with the boys, and taking care of household budget stuff and helping out around the house. He also serves in our church by teaching finance and time management classes to College students along with providing personal budget/financial counseling. We are also still enjoying serving in the college aged ministry…-ask him about his assassination attempts from this summer if you see him around.

Renay-I worked this past year for the Indiana Immunization Coalition part-time from home. However, as homeschooling has become my primary focus, I recently turned in my notice and will be ‘officially’ unemployed in 2011 for the first time since TJ was a newborn (YAY!!!). I’m loving this new, but very different season of life and am happy to almost have one semester of homeschooling behind us. Oh, and I still love ‘couponing’ and deal seeking. I’ve even added Goodwill shopping to my repertoire. I’m excited to possibly have more time (though less cash) to deal seek in the near future.

As 2010 draws to a close, the warm thoughts of the abundant blessings in our lives are at the forefront of my mind. John 10:10b confirms this for us, when Jesus states “I came so that they may have life, and have it abundantly”. While 2010 was not a year filled with big news, nor spectacular life changes, it was a good year. It was a blessed year. And it certainly was an abundant year! We pray you also have had an abundant year and are blessed with an abundant year to come!

Love, The Valiant’s
~Tim, Renay, TJ, Jake, Owen, & Griffin

Happy 4th Birthday Owen Elijah!

2010-11-02T23:00:00.000-04:00

When I post lately, I start off by apologizing for not posting for so long...this time is no different. I believe it's a good thing and a sign of the busy times in my "Valiant" days. I don't have the time to put in to this post that I would like to, nor am I going to be an editing/grammar queen, but I want to get a few thoughts down as I feel very much like an update is in order...

Can you believe this happened FOUR years AGO?

I know I can't...we welcomed the COMPLETE miracle baby, Owen Elijah Valiant into this world 8 weeks before he was due to be born, and with little hope for his tiny life. Weighing in at an incredibly tiny for gestation 2 pounds 13 ounces, and only 14 1/4 inches long...oh my word how far this little man has come!

Now on his 4th birthday, weighing in at a whopping 26 pounds and 6 ounces, towering at 35 1/2 inches...this still small for age little boy shows no signs of slowing down.

He has a larger than life personality and has been called "intense", "passionate", "dramatic", and so much more! Singing and dancing his way through life...now quoting not-exactly--appropriate lines from TV shows and movies (he does a killer "Pinocchio from Shrek" impersonation when the mood strikes). Loving to play outside, dress up, carry a 'satchel', kicking like Karate Kid, diving (air dives) like David Boudia...oh how I could go on.

...Okay-so maybe I will a bit more:-)

A smile to melt your heart, an attitude to light a burning fire in his family, and some pretty BIG faith for a young one.

It's hard to believe he's endured countless tests, scores of doctors visits, 3 surgeries, x-rays, cat scans, months of Doc-band wearing, 2 years of physical and occupational therapy, and I'm even probably leaving out some other low-lights;-)

This kid is nearly 10 times his birth weight, out running his momma, out talking his daddy, out smarting his brothers...he is TRULY SUCH an incredible boy- I can't imagine not being his mommy!

I will leave you with some pics and a clip of Owen doing an original song and an oldie-but-goodie.

Youtube video of Owen singing ♪ ♫ ♪ ♫

Finally, another Valiant Update...

2010-08-05T14:00:00.012-04:00

I've been feel the urge to post an update on our lives for awhile now...not sure anyone will be reading it, but at least it's here for the sake of journaling;)

I can't believe how facebook has killed my blogging life. I used to blog and read blogs, now I jump on fb and check out what's going on with people, so I'm sure I'm missing out but, this is the season where God has me.

So, all is well with the Lafayette Valiant Clan. We've had quite a few changes these past several months...

Disclaimer: As I read all the stuff I wrote when I was editing this post, I found myself hoping our update is read in the genuine tone I wrote it in-which is the perspective of a proud mama who truly knows how blessed she is ;-)

2 Corinthians 10:17 But HE WHO BOASTS IS TO BOAST IN THE LORD.

Here's an update on the boys:

Griffin 15 months: recent check-up revealed he continues to be on the peanut side of growth;) He was 18 pounds and 28 1/2 inches. He just started walking a few days before turning 15 months old. The doctor was concerned about his small *read non-existent* vocabulary...and wants us to contact first steps and be diligent in teaching Griffin to sign. Call me laid-back but, I'm sooo not worried about my content little man. He's quiet because he doesn't need to speak as his brothers say things for him and are at his every need;) He's a picky eater and does everything better for just about anyone else than me. He's a busy body always trying to explore. He catches onto things because he's simply so observant-ie he now bows his head to pray and holds his hands together at meal time just because he watches us. He also waves goodbye when people simply talk about leaving and he says "hello" when he put a toy phone to his ear. He has figured out that stacking up pillows=an escape route when he's not tall enough to climb unaided. I swear he says "night, night", "love you", "thank you", etc but it's something most people wouldn't pick up on.

Owen 3 years 8 months: This kid cracks us up daily! He's truly something else. Owen is 'still' small, though he wouldn't tell you that. He constantly talks about how he's growing up and how big he's getting. He's finally *read seriously, how long can it take?* potty trained for the most part. He can also ride a tricycle now, which simply took his length to be long enough to reach pedals, etc. He LOVES playing outside with all our neighbors and they all love him too! He's gotten quite the personality from playing with mostly girls...he compliments females all the time saying things such as I like your dress, your earrings are pretty, I like your hair, etc. It's a hoot! He's quite the ladies man. He's very socially outgoing and makes friends very easily. He loves to sing and dance and makes up lots of songs. He has learned to sing the books of the old testament pretty well-he calls that song "Genesis". We are starting preschool very soon. I have lots of materials ready to go to teach him here at home. He will primarily work on the basics of writing his name, copying letters and letter recognition, coloring in the lines and maybe some cutting *scary*.

Jake 6 years, 10 months: My sweet boy graduated from kindergarten in May and has enjoyed a lazy summer. At his graduation we were surprised that he was honored with a special character award, called the Eagle award. Only one boy and one girl are chosen by their teacher for this special award and when his name was called we were all so surprised and proud of him. He definitely loved his kindergarten year and his teacher Mrs. McQueen was a huge part of the reason he had such a terrific first year in school. Earlier this summer he learned how to ride his bike in literally 5 minutes of Tim helping him. No bike wrecks or anything-a huge plus side of waiting to teach your kid to ride their bike sans training wheels;). Jake's new thing is diving lessons. We enrolled him in the Boiler Diving Academy this Spring mostly because TJ wanted to try out diving and we thought "why not let Jake try it too?". Turns out, Jake is a natural and really loves his diving practices. He started out differently than TJ in that he started in 'dryland' sessions mostly on a trampoline in belts learning basic jumps and body mechanics. You can see the dedication and determination on his face. I am going to try to attach a video of him doing flip after flip in the air-his favorite thing to do in practice. He's up to over 20 consecutive back flips in belts;) The quality is poor as it was taken with my blackberry but it's a pretty cool 13 seconds;-)

TJ will attest it's WAYYYYY harder than it looks. Jake also took swim lessons this summer so he would be able to start water sessions on Diving lessons which he successfully accomplished and indeed began jumping in poolside, even though he had a serious fear of drowning. We are very proud of him overcoming this fear and are hoping his confidence in water safety will continue to grow as he will soon need to go off boards and platforms, thus going deeper under the water and swimming back further distances to the ladder. Jake did play t-ball this summer, which was fine but a little under his skill level as he could've easily done coach pitch, but we didn't realize we should move him up-whoops. Jake will be starting 1st grade and is an eager learner so I'm hoping he will enjoy school starting back up.

TJ 10 years 8 months: TJ finished 4th grade in May and was soooo glad to be done with '4th grade'. He's 10 1/2 going on 16, but not in a miserable defiant teenager way, but more of a 'he's no longer a little boy' way. TJ shocked us by playing baseball this summer-which he quit a couple years ago...he was actually decent for having so much time away from league play and he enjoyed it and his team quite a bit. He even pitched during a game as relief and in 4 pitches the inning was over with no RBI...we were ecstatic for him and he was thrilled at his performance. As I mentioned above, he started diving in the spring. He was one of only a handful kids in his school that tested well enough to start in the Learn to dive program at Boiler Diving Academy at Purdue University. He was doing amazingly working quickly through the lower certificate levels, until he was injured learning to improve his back dive technique. This was a serious set-back for him on many levels...he has become fearful of backdives and has lost some interest in the sport. We are trying to help him work through his fear now (and have been for a few months). He has the month of August off due to construction at the Aquatic facility and we are praying that he will be ready to start back in full-force in September. We are simply not wanting him to quit because he got hurt and thinks it's 'too hard'...life is hard and he can't quit at life so we want him to learn from this and persevere. TJ is starting 5th grade shortly and is actually excited about this upcoming year of school. Through much prayer, research, and deliberation, we have decided to try homeschooling our boys this fall. I have received lots of help and advice from those who've succeeded and even those who've stopped homeschooling. I have our curriculum all ready to go and a nice plan in place to give PreK3, 1st, and 5th grades a go and would love your prayers for a successful year. We are excited but nervous about such a major change in our lives.

We also have a college aged fella living in our home now, named Justin (JB). TJ offered to give up his room and move in with Jake in order to give Justin a leg up on achieving some financial goals he otherwise would've not been able to meet. Justin has been a blessing to our family this summer serving us with his fun spirit, blessing us with occasional childcare, and lending a hand around the house.

Tim and I are in love *yes, you may vomit now* and enjoying our family of 6 plus JB. We love couponing together and saving money on various grocery and drug store deals. Tim is excited about me homeschooling the boys and I am just nervous about it;-). It seems foreign to not be out with school supply lists and back to school clothes shopping. I am enjoying serving in the Women's ministry in our church. Tim enjoys counseling those in need financially. We are both *really* enjoying serving in the College Ministry-but it makes us feel a bit old and out of touch at times...we are seriously lame I have found. I just learned how to text message...see, lame!

I am officially unemployed as a nurse as of June. I hadn't worked since the fall of '09 though. I let me PRN status elapse so I left Clarian officially on good terms in case I ever want to return. I miss being a Labor and Delivery nurse but I LOVE LOVE LOVE being a stay at home mom. And for the record, I'm not unemployed all together as I work part-time from home for the Indiana Immunization Coalition as the administrative assistant to the Executive Director (who is my sis, Heather) and let me tell you it's a *sweet* gig.

That's about everything I can think of as far as updates go-but I'm sure I'm missing tons of minor details. TJ and Jake are in WI right now visiting their Grandma and Grandpa (my side) and being spoiled I'm certain. We will be heading up to get them in a week and doing a mini-vacay fishing and such during their Shanty days festival. I miss them TONS but am keeping busy with Owen and Griffin trying to do special things with them and making up the slack for all the chores that the older two do each day...I didn't realize how much their chores or emptying the dishwasher, opening the blonds, sweeping the floor, etc really help out. I may start blogging more about our adventures as a homeschooling family but haven't decided for sure. I would appreciate prayers for our family as we embark on this new season of life!

...and he's ONE!

2010-04-26T10:38:00.006-04:00

My baby boy is one year old! We celebrated with a fun swimming party.

Enjoy the pictures from this special time!

he was less than interested in blowing out his own candle!

I chose cupcakes as the theme:-)

The 'cupcake' eating started out innocently enough...

...but he decided to rub his head.

We ended the fun times with a bath in the pool (he, he). He had fun in the water and even enjoyed 'hanging poolside' with his new baby cousin Ciana.

Thanks to all who came and celebrated with us-we missed those of you who couldn't be there with us;-)

His one year check up is tomorrow-so I'll add to this post with his stats after the visit;-)

***Update with stats***

Weight 17 pounds 5 oz
Length 28 inches (finally on the growth charts in around the 5th%tile!!!)

It looks like Griffin is following in Owen's smaller footsteps...Owen was 16 pounds and 26 inches at a year (and he was born 2 months early, unlike Griffin who doesn't get any age adjustment on growth curves;-). So, Griffin is not on the charts for weight, but if you compare his height vs weight, he is doing fine and he doesn't look skinny. I am for sure that he has the least amount of hair of any of my other boys at one! The MD mentioned growth hormones which I'm not interested in for a whole slew of reasons...Owen and Griffin are who they are-thank you Lord for giving me (us) these amazing boys!

Happy March Mom!

2010-03-01T22:37:00.002-05:00

This one's for you mom...a few pics of my precious boys!

Look, I can read!

Fun at Monkey Joes!

Precious pic Tim took of the boys for my v-day gift, special frame!

Griff's taking after G-pa Andy!

Not as much snow as WI, but a very snowy winter for us!

Praying that we've seen the end of the colder weather and onto Tulips and Sunshine!
Hope you liked seeing a few pics of the boys...does it make you wanna take em' off my hands for a few days???

The next iron chef...

2010-01-21T20:12:00.001-05:00

I love my petite boys! They are so fun for silly photo ops!

Mom rules?

2010-01-21T20:10:00.000-05:00

Well...maybe not so much when she uses this against him some day-like when Owen's a senior in High School...snicker, snicker, snicker.

No, they couldn't be any cuter!

2010-01-06T16:24:00.007-05:00

How could I not title this post "no, they can't be any cuter", since one's reaction could only be "seriously, could they be any cuter?".

Owen was 9 months in his pic, Griffin is 8 months!

Happy 2010!!!

2009-12-31T01:00:00.006-05:00

From our 2009 'New Year's' letter:

Greetings one and all! I can hardly believe another year has come and gone! This year we have been mightily blessed and pray you have seen many good times and share in many more to come.

Our biggest "little" news is our newest addition to the Valiant family: Griffin Isaiah Valiant. He was born on April 24th and weighed in at 6 pounds 12 ounces. He was just 3 weeks early and after a short stay in the NICU was released to home with his momma. He turned 8 months old on Christmas Eve and surprised us all on Christmas Day by uttering his first words..."Da-Da". It was a delightful present! It has been a wonderful eight months with this AMAZINGLY good baby! He has advanced out of most of the newer baby type milestones and is already sitting up, eating solid foods, rolling around, and more! He's about 15 pounds or so and is perfectly healthy. He doesn’t have any teeth yet, but boy is he a drooler! He likes to smile and play peek-a-boo and his big brother Jake loves to make this ticklish baby boy laugh . I really can't say enough about our newest son-Griffin is so very good!

On to our spunky little Owen: Owen turned 3 years old on November 3rd. He is such a "big" boy now-well, mostly. He adores his 3 brothers and calls "Diffin" his little "tup-take" and "butter-tup". He's a "hefty" 24 pounds these days and had a busy year with a few surgeries, including a tonsil and adenoidectomy in which he recovered with NO pain medication-not even tylenol. He's amazing. For being a little guy, I bet you'd say he has one of the biggest personalities you ever saw if you could spend an afternoon with him. He sings and dances like you wouldn't believe. He loves music and just recently has started quoting movies like 'The Santa Clause'. He isn't potty trained yet and he has NO desire to be, but I have a plan and am praying he is potty trained soon.

Jake turned 6 in September and began kindergarten this year. He loves his half day kindergarten class and his sweet teacher. He's a healthy, hard headed but sweet boy who loves to tell us what he is learning like his Bible Verses and his sight words. He loves his DS and the Wii and he loves to play with his neighborhood friends. He also loves to quote movies and joined the Kids of faith Choir (from our church). He enjoyed another season of t-ball this past summer and even more so loved playing his first season of soccer. He is now involved with basketball and isn't so sure yet if basketball is his thing. Jake is probably our most passionate child. Whatever he does (good or bad), he does 100%. He's quite the problem solver too.

TJ is now TEN years old!!! He is a 4th grader at Faith Christian School, which he is finding much harder than previous grades. He has finally started losing teeth and is up to 6 teeth lost now and we see braces in his future . He enjoyed soccer this fall more than he thought he would (he hadn’t played in years!). He was quite good at it. He is now enjoying basketball this winter season. He loves playing his DS and fishing is his newfound LOVE. He even got to go ice fishing over this Christmas break with his Uncle Andrew (my brother who got married on the 4th of December by the way!). TJ still loves to read (especially science and information type books) and he is a really good big brother and is really "growing up" both physically and socially. He's nearly as tall as me now.

Tim is enjoying working at the Creasy Lane Walgreens. He is in his 12th year with Walgreens. Tim is as busy as can be with work and being a great daddy to our four boys (and of course a GREAT husband to me). He volunteers in the community with Habitat for Humanity as a mentor/financial counselor and he serves at our church in the college ministry aiding students with their finances and budgets. He even still reads a bit in his ‘spare time’, and continues to grow his massive book collection. He also serves on the school's special events committee which plans events to raise funds like the popular Eagle Auction and Eagle Fair coming up in the spring.

I am *loving* being a stay at home mom more than ever. Owen is giving me a run for my money, but Griffin being such a good baby makes up for it –most of the time. I love being able to go to all the boys practices, games and programs. I now have a new "hobby" that has blessed our family this year. I have begun couponing and we are enjoying (as a family) finding great deals and donating lots of freebies along the way. I even took some of my newfound skills and taught a small group of women how to use couponing to be better stewards of what the Lord has blessed them with. Being that our annual Christmas letter has become a New Year's letter, it's obvious that I'm quite the busy wife and momma and at times my days are so full, I simply don't get everything done. But, our boys are loved and well-cared for and that's what really matters. It's nice to be able to look towards 2010 this year and make goals for myself and our family and not worry about an outside work schedule and what-not.

We pray that you also look to 2010 with much anticipation of all that you can achieve. Hopefully, next year we'll be back to the annual Christmas letter, but who knows? It could be an 2011 Easter letter at this pace...4 kids (boys)=busy, busy, busy, BUSY!

Much love and blessings to you in 2010!

~ The Valiant’s

Tim, Renay, TJ, Jake, Owen, & Griffin

PS Find us on the web at our rarely updated family blog www.valiantupdates.blogspot.com and more frequently at Facebook. Our badges to add us as friends are on our blog site.

Merry Christmas Da-Da!

2009-12-25T12:57:00.003-05:00

Merry Christmas to everyone! I pray you are all having a special Christmas making memories and remembering Jesus' birthday today.

Tim got a very special gift as while we were opening presents this morning, Griffin starting saying Da-da! What a special gift from our 8 month (yesterday was his 8 month birthday;-).

Enjoy these pics of our lovies!

40 days without french fries...

2009-11-24T16:42:00.006-05:00

I did it!

Exactly 40 days ago I started my journey of 40 days without french fries and am proud to say "I actually did it!!!".

So, it's been a mostly private journey...few knew about the no fries plan. Just a few more knew I joined weight watchers the same night I gave up fries. 40 days into weight watchers and I'm happy to say I've lost 15 pounds (and am hoping to not gain any over the next couple days-boo thanksgiving feast-boo!!!).

I still have a significant way to go but am shocked that 5 weeks can make such a difference.

To explain why I went 40 days without my beloved fries: I knew I needed to make some major changes and french fires, specifically McDonald's french fries are soooo addictive.

I decided if Jesus could go through the desert without food for 40 days, I certainly could manage the "pain" of no french fries for the same time period.

It was hard-I had ample opportunity to cheat, sneak, and binge but I said no to those deceptive little fries and I'm so glad I did it.

Would you be willing to give up anything for 40 days to significantly impact your health and honor God?

PS Thanks to my friend Kara, hubby and sis Heath for their support during these challenging 40 days...til' death do us part;-)

Owen's turn...

2009-11-18T22:00:00.002-05:00

I keep forgetting to post this since I've known about it for less than a week, but Owen is having surgery tomorrow morning at 9:45am. He is having his tonsils and adenoids removed and his ear tubes taken out (because they aren't in place properly now). Please pray for the little guy as this will be his 4th surgery in less than 3 years! Plus, it's just hard on kiddos to be in pain and not understand. I'll post updates as I have them;-)

Happy Birthday TJ...the BIG 1-0!!!!

2009-11-09T00:01:00.000-05:00

Wow! I can't believe it has been TEN amazing years with you blessing our lives..

Our precious 1st born son. We have seen sooo many amazing and blessed firsts with you TJ! We are so proud of you, our awesome 4th grade boy!

My how you've grown-when you FINALLY arrived into this world (some very painstaking 5 days overdue and via induced labor) you weighed 8 pounds 3 ounces. I carried you WEEKS longer than any of your siblings and you were by far the biggest baby-you were so big I almost needed a c-section to deliver you, but my amazingly skilled Doctor (Dr. Kevin Miller who is dearly missed in the Lafayette area since his move) was able to get you out with a vacuum assisted delivery and you had quite the crooked head;-) Thankfully, it's rounded out nowadays;-) Now you are almost as tall as mommy and your feet are almost as big as mine too! I wonder if you will be taller than your dad someday soon?

You were a very content and sweet baby. Everyone always commented about how cute you were...like alot. You were sooo smart early on. You saw the world in the most amazing light. At the ripe age of two you picked up every speck of "tash" in sight and you could read tons of words (thanks to your daddy's hard work teaching you how to read).

You've come a long way since those early years...just the other day you reported to your father and I that you have decided what you want to be when you grow up- a police officer. That's a long way from your previous reported future aspirations of working as the "boss in construction".

You have claimed Jesus as your Lord and Savior since you were just 4 years old and you led your brother Jake to the Lord just last year. You have infectious laughter and a big tooth"less" smile. You love many sports and creative projects and destroying and rebuilding things. You love catching bugs and frogs and getting dirty and you really love FISHING...oh how that's an understatement. I think you'd move to Wisconsin with your Grandpa Andy and Uncle Andrew if we'd let you because of your shared love of outdoor fun.

I could go on all day bragging about you and how special you are to us...

We hope you have a very special 10th birthday and always remember how much we love you-even more with each passing day but unimaginably not as much as you Father God loves you!

Three years old!

2009-11-03T00:01:00.000-05:00

You need a haircut.

You are exclaiming at this very moment "MOM! I need a tup-take!"

I ignore you in order to type this special blog post. You change your tone to a sweet needy voice, love on "Diffin" and say you want to "tuddle with me".

You are needy beyond measure...

...AND I simply would not want it ANY other way!

3 years ago today, when I woke up in a hospital bed, only 32 weeks and 3 days pregnant with you, I wasn't sure this day would ever come-at least not this side of Heaven.

Boy am I glad doctors can be wrong and that the Good Lord had other plans for you.

At 2 pounds 13 ounces, 14 1/2 inches long, you came into this world "healthy" and never even needed breathing support. You simply needed to remain in the special care nursery until you could eat well on your own and maintain your own temperature.

After 26 days in the NICU, you came home to us at 3 pounds 9 ounces. You've been growing steadily (though slowly) since then.

Now at 3, you can do EVERYTHING your peers can do and then some. You dance and sing like no other 3 year old I've seen (especially not in our not-so musically talented family;-). You run, jump, and play like a wild man! You love the neighbor kids and everyone loves you.

You weigh in at 23 pounds and are 34 inches long. So, you may be the weight of an average 13 month old and the height of an average 18 month old but you sure have a big personality to make up for your smaller size. You wear size 4 shoes (very tiny feet mister!) and 2T clothes swim on you but you don't know it and probably wouldn't care if you did. You have figured out ways to get to what you want and can climb like a champ. Step-stools are your friend and you know no other way. Medically, we are not pursuing any other treatment nor answers regarding your size-you are perfect the way you are!

You love your brothers and they all love you. You bug them sometimes, but in the end, you have a sweet brotherly love with each of your siblings.

You have both super sweet and stinkin' scary sides to you. You must get that from Daddy;-). We were walking through a store today and you were singing your ABC's at the top of your lungs...amazing.

Now, you aren't quite potty trained but you could be if you weren't so stinkin' stubborn! We have a new tactic that we are working on to get you in big boy undies once and for all. You sleep in your big boy bed and can dress yourself from head to toe. You are just finally able to pedal your tricycle that you got for Christmas but you didn't care when you couldn't reach the pedals-you just pushed along on the ground at the speed of light.

You are so excited about your birthday party later today...Chuck-E-Cheese's here we come! Woot-woot!

I feel so blessed that God chose me and your Daddy and brothers to be your family! I pray that we get to see you grow up and that someday there is a special girl that God is "growing up" for you even now to be your wife...oh the patience she'll need;-).

We love you Owen and are so happy to spend this special day-your 3rd birthday with you! Happy Birthday special boy!

Jake's surgery:

2009-10-26T10:32:00.004-04:00

Tomorrow Jake is having surgery. It's become more and more apparent that his poor hygiene practices have left him needing radical dental work:

Ok, ok...just kidding-well, only about the poor hygiene and radical dental work part. He really has a beautiful smile!

And, it shouldn't be affected (at least not for long) by tomorrow's surgery. Tomorrow Jake is having his tonsils and adenoids removed due to sleep apnea. His tonsils are ginormous and he sleep walks and snores and such so we are hoping the surgery improves his sleep habits which should in turn improve his daily life.

I feel at peace about the surgery as his surgeon is very nice and gave us a couple options regarding the surgery. It will be done in the surgery center close to our home and Jake should be recovering at home later the same day. But, with all that being said, I have normal mommy worries and will be going it alone in the morning since the H1N1 flu has caused Clarian to restrict those who accompany patients (very understandably). My sister was going to go with me but since they explained these new precautions, just me and Jake will be trekking in for the surgery.

He's supposed to be out of school for a week and avoid activity for 2 weeks...hmmm-that'll be interesting. It looks like it'll be a good few days of red box and cartoon network for the Valiant household.

Please pray for the surgery and for Jake's recovery (and for my sanity;-).

Happy 6 months old today Griffin!!!

2009-10-24T17:48:00.009-04:00

What a big boy you are now!

Today you had your first EVER solid foods-rice cereal and bananas...yum!

You seemed to like them and kept moving closer to the spoon but you shuddered a couple times at the banana taste. It was super cute to watch you experience this milestone!

You are getting stronger and closer to rolling over and sitting alone.

No sign of any teeth yet (except tons of drool and incessant gnawing at your hands;-).

You are sleeping in your cradle but are days away from the big move to your crib!

You wear 3-6 and 6-9 month clothes-many of which Owen wore just last year!

You weigh almost 14 pounds (at least that's what you weighed a week ago when you visited the doctor for a dreaded 1st-ear infection!).

Your biggest news is following in your big brother Owen's foot steps and needing to wear a cranial orthotic (called a Star Band) for plagiocephaly. All those big words just mean your noggin' is pretty flat but we'll get it rounded out in no time. You just got your new head band Wednesday and you've done great so far-but today we did notice a dreaded "pink spot" that has been slow to fade so you got to try your solid foods with a "band break".

You belly laugh out loud and coo and grunt and even yell often. You love your brothers and SO FAR all of them love you so much. Owen loves to play Pat-a-cake with you. You are drinking 6-7 ounce bottles every 3-4 hours during the day and still wake up in the wee hours for a bottle too;-)

You (and Owen) both see your pediatrician next week for your 6 month (and 3 year!!!) check ups!

You are such a delight and we all love you so much! Happy 6 month birthday baby boy!

PS Here is a cute shot of you from your 5 month photo shoot (all 4 of you precious Valiant boys have worn those same bib overalls at some point for a monthly picture!):

6 years ago...

2009-09-26T22:12:00.003-04:00

It was 10:12 PM and I was at work doing a precious newborn baby's footprints when I felt a huge "pop/pain" sensation and thought "uh, oh". I had to excuse myself from the delivery room and took off to the employee bathroom with Nitrazine paper in hand.

But I was only 34 weeks and 5 days pregnant...could this really be my water breaking?

The nitrazine paper said YES. Then about a half hour later, my contractions started in full force and my water was GUSHING out like the Niagara falls. Tim hadn't even made it to the hospital yet, but I was in full blown labor!

Then at 12:12 AM on September 27th, my precious baby Jacob Thomas Valiant was born-I was still on the clock too;-).

It was a rocky start for him as his lungs were not mature and he stayed in the NICU for 12 long days...those were dark times for me. I couldn't have imagined that I'd tread even deeper, darker waters with future child bearing (Thank you very much Owen).

Look how far you've come my special boy, who at the ripe age of 5 3/4 decided he wanted his name to be "JAKE".

We love you so much Jakey! Hope you have a very special 6th birthday. I know I likely will not forget it as I've never had 17 neighbor kids (including my 3) over to entertain for a birthday party all while in misery myself of suffering greatly from probable strep throat-results not in yet, thank you slow Urgent Care (don't worry parents of the world-I've been on antibiotics now for over 24 hours and will be on them even longer (almost 48 hours)when the party actually occurs;-)

I have all kinds of fun things planned like a nature scavenger hunt, creature themed charades, cotton ball/plastic spoon relays, musical chairs-plus much more. And we are having "make your own" sundaes and birthday cupcakes. It's sure to add to my gray hair total but all very worth it as I believe Jake will remember this one;-)

Who wouldn't want to search for a dead bug on a scavenger hunt? Fun times!

Oh, in case you were wondering, Jake is still loving his $200 gas meter!

Fun times while I should be sleeping...

2009-09-13T22:34:00.009-04:00

*As usual, blogger spell checker isn't working---so forgive my typos, etc*

This is what the non-sane people do when they should be sleeping...finally make a blog post about what's been going on.

1st up: the verdict on the new gas meter $65 but with labor, the bill was $189...way more than our typical birthday gift amount for our youngins'.

What's wrong with this picture?

Something you don't see everyday, eh?

Now onto the Owen and his cosmetic fiasco pics I promised...10 for your viewing pleasure...oh the captions I *could* use for some of these shots;-)

Can you believe him? Oi-vey.

We let the boys do soccer this year...2 games down so far...they LOVE it! Who knew? Each of them have been awarded special patches each week-TJ got the best attitude award (at least he gets that somewhere:-) the first week and most improved the 2nd week (he scored FIVE goals -and only one other kid scored 1) and Jake got best effort (and scored a goal too!)! I'm so proud of them. Soccer is way more fun than I thought it would be. I missed TJ's game this week, but here are some shots of Jake in action (or lack thereof;-):

Here's what Owen did the WHOLE time:

Nope, don't worry, not ONE person stared at us the whole game...not one;-) Really-no one shot us glares and snickered as we dealt with our heathen. No one.

Lastly, I couldn't resist showing off my latest couponing score:

The first picture is my Target trip from Saturday: I spent around $16 but left with a $5 Target gift card (so net of $11). Included are 16 individual string cheese, 6 boxes of cereal, 5 boxes of Fiber one bars (da bomb!), 9 individual portion cereal cups, and 2 new bounce dryer bars (haven't tried yet).

Second photo is my Meijer trip from Saturday: I spent $2...yes I'm serious. AND, I walker away with $6 in Meijer bucks (net +$4). Included is 6 boxes of kool-aid singles for a soldier care package donation, 2 boxes corn, 5 bags frozen peas, 2 lysol spray cleaners, 2 lysol toilet bowl cleaners, 5 healthy choice meals, 2 jars pickles, 2 apples, 1 caramel dip, and 1 bag saurkraut.

It was a very fun shopping trip to spend $18 total in cash and walk away with $11 in "on your next purchase" bucks. I already used them too-on todays papers to get my inserts for future couponing endeavors!

I will mention working full-time has left my house in shambles, me with no friends, and I don't even know why we have cable. But, I'm working, my kids are fed and clothed, and I'm couponing-so life is still pretty good.

Oh- and no, everyone is not well-YET! TJ and I made a trip to urgent care Thursday night for his mono-like symptoms (tested negative though-on an antibiotic now), Tim is still ODing on Tylenol daily, and now Griffin is having diarrhea and not eating.

Life is good though;-)

09.09.09

2009-09-09T08:03:00.001-04:00

What a cool date huh?

It's even more cool because it's my sweet hubby's birthday!

Even though he's STILL sick...I hope he has a HAPPY 34th at home napping;-)

Love you BABY!

We are a mess...

2009-09-08T02:25:00.002-04:00

Seriously...we couldn't be anymore of a mess.

I started working full-time. God laughed at me.

Here is what has transpired since I began working:

Things started out ok-I got an eye infection (my 4th or is it 5th? in just a couple months-blasted contacts!).

Jake got quite the yucky cold so we asked my sister to be on stand by for kid duty so I could still work. Ironically enough, the next day, TJ was sick. Verdict-the flu.

Jake continued with his cold and it turned into a nice case of impetigo in his nose-lovely.

Griffin got his 4 month immunizations and of course, they gave him a nice bought of the fussies and fever.

Owen got the flu mist vaccine and he got a nice fever as well (I requested the shot for him b/c he deserved it but they denied me the request).

TJ continued on with his "flu" for 3 days and finally went back to school on Friday. He then landed back in bed by the weekend with fever yet again.

And the grand daddy of them all...for our lovely 3 day weekend, Tim got the flu also. He's been in bed (or on the couch) since he woke up Saturday morning and it's really been the most pathetic thing...I will spare the details here to protect what little dignity he has left. He's already called off work for Tuesday...I can't WAIT to go back to work Tuesday (today) and it really is 2am. I woke up and couldn't get back to sleep.

It has been MISERABLE being the single parent of a 4 month, 2, 5, 9 and 33 year old. I haven't been the best example nor had the most patience.

I've learned Owen has 2 levels-unconscious (when he's sleeping) and really loud (all other times). Griffin is needy...what a selfish 4 month old. Jake is very self reliant, impetigo and all. TJ and his father are...well, I think I may have to play the 'if you haven't anything nice to say' card.

Owen also is sporting the remnants of a make-up stained face as I didn't trust my instincts and allowed there to be "quietness" for a bit too long Saturday. I wear a lip product that stains the lips and it works lovely to keep my pale lips looking pretty all day...but Owen's eyebrows and cheeks are a different story. Not soap nor water will remove that stuff-serves ya right you little terror.

God is still laughing.

4 months old!

2009-08-26T14:56:00.003-04:00

Griffin has hit yet another milestone...he's 4 months old!

What a little ham! Here are a few of the shots from his 4 month picture trip (I heart Target!).

He doesn't go for his 4 month check up for a week or so (since i screwed up and forgot to schedule early;-)...so I weighed him here at home. I ht ought he was quite the chunk but my beloved growth charts show him staying right on track with his weight (small but mighty;-) in the 10th percentile...with a jammie and dry diaper on he weighed 13 pounds even! Now for the length...I wouldn't of guessed it but unless my measuring tape is whacked, he is only 23 inches which make shim a real shorty in the ZERO percentile...so either I stink at measuring or he's not staying on track with his length growth...no worries-no plans for the NBA anyway.

He's busting outta 3 month clothes and as soon as we finish off this pack of size one diapers, he'll graduate to size 2's. He's become more vocal and makes the cutest (at least right now) whiny sounds. He rolls to his side and looks for us and scootches in circles (slowly but surely). He's still on 6 oz of formula around every 3 hours, except at night which he sleeps through pretty well.

That's about it for the lil' stinker right now. I'll update when he has his check-up if my measurements were off.

Jake's birthday list:

2009-08-25T14:58:00.011-04:00

Jake's 6th birthday is nearing (9-27). He's been working on a list for sometime now.

Today his list was wiped clean and we got him an early birthday present:

Yep, a new shiny gas meter!

I'll let the pictorial walk you through this unbelieveable tale:

The evidence-a couple basketballs and a golf club:

The only suspect-Jake with a verbal confession to his mother

The emergency phone call to vectren: "HI, my son hit the gas thingy outside of our house and now there is a strong gas smell and hissing noise".

What I'm told (after confirming my address)- "Ma'am do not turn anything in your home off or on. DO not close nor open any windows, do not start your vehicles. Do not make any calls including with your cell phone. Do not hang up, I will disconnect this call."

Me-"Uh, so should we leave the house"

Vectren-"yes, you should get a safe distance from the home but watch for the response truck".

Great.What.fun.

So, I get Owen outta bed, and grab Griffin in his carrier and stick him in his stroller to go stand on the street corner. I did take my cell with me and call Tim who was already near our house coming back from a meeting. He asked me what I brought with me...I said "nothing but our children!"

The neighbor let the boys go inside since it's so hot out and we sat on her porch in the shade and waited. We could smell gas even at her house.

Finally, Vectren shows up. He explained due to the nature of the situation, he'd have to "write it up"...so we asked if that meant $$$. He said "yeah".

So, enjoy your shiny new gas meter Jake!

Oh, and no more golf for you 'Tiger'.

Kids are expensive!

2009-08-22T08:50:00.003-04:00

That's not really the point...read on-best $24.24/day x's 4 I've ever spent!

With my "back to work post just out, thought I'd post this bit I got from my BIL Jason...love it!

The Price of Children (don't know who the author was):

This is just too good not to pass on to all. Here is something absolutely positive for a change. I have repeatedly seen the breakdown of the cost of raising a child, but this is the first time I have seen the rewards listed this way. It's nice.

The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk about sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition...

But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into:

* $8,896.66 a year,
* $741.38 a month,
* $171.08 a week.
* A mere $24.24 a day!
* Just over a dollar an hour.

Still, you might think the best financial advice is: don't have children if you want to be 'rich.' Actually, it is just the opposite.

What do you get for your $160,140.00?

* Naming rights . First, middle, and last!
* Glimpses of God every day.
* Giggles under the covers

* More love than your heart can hold.
* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
* A hand to hold usually covered with jelly or chocolate.
* A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites.
* Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.

For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up. You get to:

* finger-paint,
* carve pumpkins,
* play hide-and-seek,
* catch lightning bugs,
* never stop believing in Santa Claus .

You have an excuse to:

* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,
* watch Saturday morning cartoons,
* go to Disney movies, and
* wish on stars.

You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas , hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day , and cards with backward letters for Father's Day .

For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for:

* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,
* taking the training wheels off a bike,
* removing a splinter,
* filling a wading pool ,
* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and
* coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.

You get a front row seat in history to witness the:

* First step,
* First word,
* First bra (ok, maybe no tfor the Valiant's),
* First time behind the wheel.
* First date,

You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great grandchildren. You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match..

In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever (I've done this already), and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!

Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren & great-grandchildren!!!!!!! It's the best investment you'll ever make!!!!!!!!!

Hug them extra tight today...especially when they are "bad";-)

Hi-ho, hi-ho...

2009-08-21T16:12:00.002-04:00

It's back to work I go!

You may remember way back in the early summer when we (myself, Tim, and my L&D boss Julie) decided I'd return to work in L&D in August-working likely Monday nights...

Well, if you haven't noticed, August is almost over and I've yet to go back...so here's the scoop.

I found out that there were not going to be "guaranteed hours" for me to work Mondays, nor possibly at all, so about a month ago, I began looking at other options. I thought about being a flu shot nurse or learning (ugh-yes, learning) a new area of nursing.

However, my heart is to stay at home with our boys-especially with Griffin being so young. But, since that would not align with our family's financial goals, a SAHM I can not be-right now at least. Yet, learning something altogether new would be very unlikely with me desiring to be VERY part-time.

So, I called up my wonderful L&D boss Julie and surprisingly, she had another option for me to think about. Tim and I tossed it around, I searched around for reliable childcare and decided to apply for the position. I had an interview about 2 weeks ago and FINALLY heard back---

Yep! You guessed it, I got the job;-). So here are the specs: I'll be working as a phone triage nurse (though the duties are much greater than chattin' on the phone all day-bummer) at the Cascada OBGYN office...isn't that ironic-the office that I cried gallons of tears over while pregnant I'll be working at;-) He, he. I think it's funny (and embarrassing). I will work Mondays and Tuesdays and the amazing part is, all the childcare worked out PERFECTLY! TJ will of course be at school all day. He'll just need to head to aftercare those 2 days. Jake will go to all day kindergarten those 2 days only (and they gave us super reasonable rates). Finally, Owen and Griffin will be heading off to their own little kid school-a great child care and preschool ministry of Elston Family Church (where I attend some women's ministry events, including Heart to Heart on Wednesday nights).

Are you ready for the BEST part? I have to train/orient for 2 weeks and during that time-they will POTTY train Owen! Woot-woot! *Jumping up and down*! That is priceless!

Seriously though, I'm actually very sad and apprehensive about going back to work, but I believe that the Lord has opened this door for a reason and worked everything out for us so, that does give me great peace.

With this, we are embarking on super busy times...I start next Thursday and then will work solid through the 15th of September before settling into my Monday Tuesday routine. This coupled with TJ beginning on a swim team (that's if he makes the team) that practices every night (but we'll only attend 3 or so nights (*only-rolling eyes*) and Jake starting Soccer.

B-U-S-Y-T-I-M-E-S-!-!-!

In other news, Griffin will be 4 months old Monday (tears falling). Owen went pee-pee on the potty today (cheering...pee-pee in the pott-y!). I am getting over the stomach flu (thank you TIM) AND we are still not unpacked/settled back in from a recent trip to Wisconsin we took (post coming soon). Oh and Griffin still has a cold (yuck-y!).

So, that's the scoop-pretty lengthy, I know. Pray for us;-)

TJ & Jake 1st day of school 2009

2009-08-18T08:54:00.011-04:00

Whew! Glad that is over...I'm back home and settled in from getting TJ to his first day of FOURTH grade and Jake settled in to his first day of KINDERGARTEN.

I fought back the tears (a few times) as the first day always fills me with mixed emotions of happiness for my healthy kiddos and the bittersweetness of knowing they are a year older and have new adventures and challenges ahead.

Ok, on to the photo journey...hang with me here:

Jake eating from the Celebration plate-his "K" shaped pancake and snowman shaped pancake. The celebration plate saw it's first use ever at the Valiant home for TJ's first day of kindergarten-since then we've pulled it out for b-days, and other special firsts.

TJ with his "4" shaped cake:

All 4 boys at breakfast:

Handsome TJ:

Cuteykins Jake:

Other fun first day pics:

My 4 sweet boys ready to load into the van:

At school-it was a drearyish day:

TJ with his 4th grade teacher Miss Hicks:

Jake with his kindergarten teacher Mrs. McQueen:

Jake at his desk:

Owen loving on Jake (he didn't want to leave Jake and was confused as to where his seat was;-):

Other thoughts about the morning: Where to begin? Geesh-it is hard getting up 4 boys, getting them breakfast, myself ready, them ready, a packed lunch for TJ, backpacks, and safely loaded into the van in order to be to the school around 7:50am. Just an observation. Oh, and before I forget-HUGE praises to God for arranging it that Griffin is sleeping soundly in his carrier (even though overdue to eat) and Owen is watching Scooby so I can even compose and post this. Also, I am so thankful that we have been blessed with the resources to send our boys to FCS...how awesome to get to see Jake start the day in prayer with his class (the prayer was led by his teacher). The school also had a great mini-pep session to get the students excited including a great game of Simon Says (Jake was clueless;-) and then some fun roller board relays...so thankful for no injuries;-) The school administrator prayed for the school year, and then the teachers and kids joined in a fun FCS cheer. It was during the pep time in the gym that I fought back the tears as I realized in just moments, I'd be leaving without kisses or hugs or even waves goodbye.

I did walk with Jake's class to his room to get pictures. He was very subdued and quiet. He was all slouched over and uninterested looking. Owen kept saying in a sweet voice "Hi Jake". I finally let him go over to Jake's desk and give him a kiss and hug good bye. Me, Owen, and Griffin left just after attendance was taken. Jake has 19 in his class and there are 2 sections of k-garteners (the other section has 18). TJ has just 23 kids in his class and his class does not have a second section-he is in the smallest class in K-6th grades at FCS but, it is the first year he has attended with this large of a class as they've always had enough for 2 sections-ussually around 18 or so in each section-so many classmates could not re-enroll this year-thanks economy.

I pick Jake up from half day K at 11:30 and TJ at 3:30. I'm sure the day with go fast-but not fast enough for Owen who already misses his bros. I better end to get some stuff done around here before 11:30 rolls around. Yay for another first day of school gone by!

PS blogger is mean and spell check isn't working so I'm going to post knowing that there are some typos, etc but Griffin calls

Oh and a cute blast from the past-oh where has the past 4 years gone???:

Stuff and I'm just wondering...

2009-08-03T21:46:00.003-04:00

Griffin is in full-blown cooing mode. *Precious*
He also sat and smacked his lips while we ate dinner tonight. *Hilarious*

Tim had some minor surgery today. *Pathetic*
I was asking him if I could get him anything and he said "you could take a sugar pill so you would be sweeter". *Seriously nervy*
I hid his pain medicine for that. *giggle*

I owe TJ $10.00 because he loaaded (and unloaded) a bucket (sand castle size) 100 times (at 10 cents a trip) and took it back and forth to relocate landscape rocks. *Devoted*

Owen dances around while singing like Stevie Wonder. *Beautiful*

Jacob informed us that he would like to change his name when he grows up. What?
Yep, and for now, he would like to no longer be called Jacob, but only Jake. *Okey Dokey*

Now on to me wondering...what blogs do you read? Seriously, I want to know. I think I'm missing a lot of amazing writers and what God has for them to share because I'm in my own little rut or 10 or so blogs. Most of the blogs I read are about people and their lives...a few on frugal spending and couponing and such-but I'm looking for MEATY, seriously daily life transforming words right now...

Know of any such blogs? Please share in my comments section. Thank you.

Tropicanoe Cove...

2009-07-28T15:34:00.004-04:00

I heard quite a few comments from cove go-ers regarding my bravery in bringing my 4 boys *alone* to the area water park/pool (I replied back with I'm just dumb;-)...it wasn't all that bad if you don't count that I: forgot the camera, forgot Griffin's t-shirt and sun hat, forgot Owen's shoes and sun hat, busted my 44 oz soda all over shortly after parking, reloaded the kids to trek back home to get the necessities I forgot the first time, get another soda, and drive back. We were in the park less than a half hour before I realized I forgot Griffin's formula (thankfully, only in the van). It was an adventure:(|)

Really bad terrible no good mommy day...

2009-07-27T10:34:00.002-04:00

But not as terrible as this poor momma...please pray.

Happy 3 months today Griffin!!!!

2009-07-24T00:08:00.000-04:00

Boy oh boy...could there really be any better a baby? I'm so not bragging...Griffin is just.so.good. So good. He loves to be held, but in an enjoyable cuddly way and not in a demanding, manipulative way.

I just weighed him and with a onesie and diaper he was 10.4 pounds ---he's really a chunko monko these days.

We have been very busy (or very lazy) lately.

We've had a garage sale, taken a very quick trip to WI to visit/fish, been to the fair, the park a few times with this seasonably cool weather, recent hair cuts, done lots of yard work, and done lots and lots of bargain shopping-YES, with ALL 4 boy in toe or is it tow???.

Back to the baby Griff -he is sleeping better through the night-though not in his cradle-he has a weird aversion to it;-) So about 6 hours is the norm. Taking 5 ounce bottles every 3 hours when awake and sometimes longer stretches. He still will drink any formula I offer him (which is SUCH a huge blessing). We have started him on probiotics because his poo is soooo stinky! No noticeable difference yet but it's still early (I think, I hope).

He's on the verge of talking-I just know it. He looks at us talking to him so intently and tries to make his voice work. We've heard definite "h" sounds and it's so stink'n sweet. He's still wearing size 1 diapers. He has COMPLETELY outgrown his newborn size clothes. I have him in the few 3-6 month outfits and onesies we have for him.

He takes a binkie but if it's not in his mouth and he needs it, he shoves his fists in his mouth and makes loud smacking sounds. He still sleeps alot but has definitely begun to find his hands and bat at toys hanging and such. He also will cry if he is alone and wants someone to come-he will open his eyes every so often to check to see if anyone is watching;-) If you start to talk to him, he will calm down and even smile around his cries.

Ok, now for the photo recap:

The 4th of July in their Old navy tees:

not everyone wanted to pose:

the baby wearin' mama:

love'n lake MI:

love these boys (minus one of course):

Patriotic fam:

TJ's kinda gross, kinda cool fish skeleton:

TJ's first big lake fish:

Griffin lovin' fishin':

Brave fishermen return:

There's no small fish with Owen around:

Grampa helping the boys catch from the "so safe" rocks:

The boys enjoying the ducks:

Wow Griff:

Party on dude:

Pre-hair cuts (aka shaggy ville):

Post-hair cut fine lookin' boys:

Dr. Jake:

Dr. TJ:

Dr. Owen:

My DH-nice shirt:

The crazies about to go on the "storm":

Swimmin' in a baby pool wears this baby out:

Hopefully, I will get back into the swing of posting...that is, if I have any readers left;-)

This tea's for you!

2009-07-23T10:52:00.003-04:00

I know it's been a while...no good excuses-been busy and then just lazy too. But, today is free tea day at McAlister's Deli (all locations)...enjoy a Free cup with no purchase nor coupon necessary. And mark your calendars! 99 cent kids hamburger happy meal day is coming (at least to Lafayette Area Mickey D's) in honor of the Happy Meals 30th birthday! It will be on Sunday July 26th...enjoy!

Lastly, in honor of Griffin's 3 month birthday tomorrow, a real post will be coming to update you on him (and the rest of the family). On the edge of your seat?

Do you SWAG?

2009-06-29T15:05:00.001-04:00

If not, you should be!

What's swagging, you ask? Ahhhh...I'm glad you asked!

Simply click the banner, sign up for an account and begin earning "search" points for every search you do.

What? Why would I search through swagbucks instead of google, etc?

From swags site: www.swagbucks.com features a best in trade search feed, which includes results from Google & Ask.com. If you're already searching the web, why not win prizes, while continuing to receive the same great results you are accustomed to?

So, frankly, you should use it simply because swagbucks pays you to search and it's just that easy!

I've been using it for about a month (very mild use as I have little to search nowadays) and have earned my first amazon gift card...and there are lots of prizes but gift cards are my fav.

How will you remember to swag search? Great question! They've thought of it though-just upload their toolbar and click it everytime you want to search. You'll be awarded approx 1-5 swag bucks every few searches- so, in my case, in one year of swagging, I should easily have $60 in amazon gift cards-simply for clicking a different search browser than I used to use.

Go ahead, try it! I dare ya!

My life-updated.

2009-06-29T12:27:00.007-04:00

I don't even know where to begin...

I guess I should say, nothing profound will be shared herein-just normal boring life stuff-which is good-I don't want to have profound things to share;-)

Griffin had his 2 month check up. All is great with him. He's a terrific baby! Seriously awesome baby! He weighed 9 pounds 14 ounces and was 21 5/8 inches long. He plotted in the 10th percentile, which humored me, since I think he's such a chunk;-) In my defense, if you plot him his height v weight, he is 50%tile which is perfect!

He is wearing 0-3 months clothes. He eats 5 ounce bottles of whatever formula is on sale about every 3 hours. He does bless us with some 4 and 5 hour stretches and has slept from 11pm to 6am a handful of times;-) He smiles and coos-he seems to be catching on the being social. He has found his tongue and often sticks it in and out over and over *so cute*. He's wearing size 1 pampers cuddlers (the only way to go in my humble opinion;-). He's a quiet baby and usually pretty content in his swing or bouncy seat-but he LOVES to be held. Especially lying on his tummy on Tim or I's chest;-)

That's about it for the Griffster's boring (but beautiful)baby life.

As for the rest of us, it's been ridiculously hot here. Today is a cooler day finally but I have no desire to go outside at the moment. In fact, there are 2 neighbor girls (with Jake) and 3 neighbor boys (with TJ) inside right now playing(read destroying) my house.

Owen is back to normal from his surgery...next task-potty training (someday).

Jacob is mean right now-yes, you read that right-he's mean. We are working on it but it's a battle for sure. Yesterday was spent with him "grounded" all day from playing outside or electronics so that meant for punishment for the parents too;-)

TJ is enjoying his summer thus far with 3 boys from the neighborhood. They enjoy fishing in a nearby pond (don't ask, it makes me nervous) and playing the Wii, etc inside when it's too hot outdoors. He's been wanting to do the workreation program where he volunteers for an hour to earn a free pass to the pool, but 1) it's soo early to take him and 2) it's been so hot and Owen wasn't cleared for the pool -until now.

Tim is busily working at Wag. I have him sucked into my new couponing lifestyle. We hardly ever buy anything not on sale/with coupons. He's all about the deals. He's even instructing a portion of a local couponing class tonight in regards to Walgreens customer loyalty program called register rewards. He is also busy with his volunteer work of mentoring/counseling others in regards to finances including a new project with Habitat for Humanity...oh and I almost forgot-he's on a team for a book review for a book our Pastor is writing...busy fella.

Me-I'm just enjoying the boys and the summer break. I'm totally into couponing now as a way of life. It's been an amazing blessing for our family to not only save money but also get to try out things I never would've bought before. I don't think I'll ever pay for newspapers, shampoo, soaps, toilet paper, toilet bowl cleaner (and some other cleaning products), tooth brushes, tooth paste, and more AGAIN! It's amazing once you get the hang of it. And fun. And it really fulfills my shopping bug. And that's about it for me and for all of us I guess. Here are some pics from recent adventures:

All of the boys (except Griffin) have been sick recently-here's pics (Owen was already over his when I took the pic of him:-)

The 2 middle boys playing dress u:

Flowers from my garden:

Happy 2 months old Griffin!!!

2009-06-24T00:08:00.000-04:00

A big post will be done later but this will have to do for now (2 month check-up Friday;-)

Happy Father's Day 2009

2009-06-21T13:41:00.005-04:00

(they don't make cute Dad's day tees in baby sizes, I guess;-)

It was asking too much for 10 eyes to be looking at the camera and 5 mouths to be smiling at the same time;-) But I am grateful for all of "my boys" to be in one place at this time-as it all will fade way too fast.

7 weeks-Milestone alert!

2009-06-11T20:17:00.004-04:00

wait for it...

...it's coming

not quite...

ah! there it is! The Griffinator Salivation has a new trick-

He can smile on demand!

It's been coming for weeks now-but I wanted to be sure and catch it on good ole dig media!;-)

Also, Owen has had an up and down night. He woke up from his 2 hour nap on me at 7pm and was very outta sorts. He was not due for pain meds yet, so we sat outside (it's a nice night here). He had a Popsicle and his pain meds and then a gentle wagon ride around the neighborhood (thanks L&D gals for the red wagon-it's a smooth ride;-). Now it's more Scooby for all of us;-)

Home from surgery...

2009-06-11T15:57:00.002-04:00

Owen finally got his wagon ride from the recovery area to our van for the ride home (there were not any wagons out for his ride into surgery this very early AM).

We are now home and he is one swollen, sore, and cranky little boy. Tim just got back with his "yucky" tasting pain medicine. Owen walked for the first time and he walked much like a "cowboy" and held his "crotch" saying it hurt-poor baby.

Watching your child in pain is tough-but it could be sooo much worse.

Thank you everyone for their prayers!;-) I'll keep the updates coming as we recover;-)

Recovery

2009-06-11T11:54:00.003-04:00

Owen is out of surgery and is doing well. He is very groggy and has a sad green face. We should be able to go home soon. This is my first (and probably last) blog post:). Renay is holding Owen so I am blogging for her. There are so many children here in recovery and it is heart breaking. Our family is so blessed. Renay will keep you posted. Love Heather

Waiting...

2009-06-11T09:20:00.002-04:00

My sister and I are sitting in the atrium at Riley just waiting now...

Owen did pretty good during our near 2 hour wait/check-in process (Scooby Doo helped). The doctor was running behind so after they took Owen to the surgery suite, we waited for 40 minutes to speak with her (a bit frustrating;-).

So, we've had our gazillion calorie McD's breakfast and are now going to mess with our coupons while we wait. Oh and Facebook is blocked here so I can't even facebook.

That's all for now.

Surgery...

2009-06-10T22:30:00.002-04:00

Just a super quick post to remind you that Owen's surgery is bright and early tomorrow (Thursday). My sister and I are heading to Riley with Owen at 5am!!! His surgery is slated for 8am and we are hoping to get outta there just after noon to get him back home.

I'm not so excited about the recovery period and keeping that crazy kid 'mellow' for 2+ weeks...that'll be fun.

I'll update as soon as I can once he's out of surgery;-)

Grand intentions...

2009-06-03T15:59:00.003-04:00

That's what I've had in regards to post after post lately...but it just hasn't happened.

I'll start with today:

Today, Wednesday June 3rd has felt like I'm finally in the groove of life with 4 boys---who are all at home with me for the summer. We did normal stuff at home- like clean up the kitchen, clean rooms, and put away WEEKS worth of laundry (which isn't totally finished but mostly done;-). We sat and watched the hermit crabs-the smaller of the 2 shed his exoskeleton last night so the left over shell was very cool to assess and it was neat to watch him try to make his way in his new soft skin. Just normal boring stuff-no errands...no frills...just hangin' out at home-and of course trying to train my very spoiled newborn that his 6 weeks of constant attention are a thing of the past. With the older boys now home for the summer, Griffin will undoubtedly see less mommy attention.

Next week is a big week for us...I have my 6 week post partum check up, in which, I have used every fiber of my being to not cancel as I so don't look forward to such events. Owen has his surgery next Thursday-and I finally got some details which make me feel a little more at ease about the procedure and after care. The poor guy will be on T#3's (Tylenol with codiene) for a couple days and will be restricted from any ride on toys etc for 2 weeks...that will be sad as he loves his ride on's. We will start hosting a Bible study in our home on Thursday nights as well.

I don't know where the past 6 weeks have gone but I'm guessing it is a blur of sleep deprivation, holding, cuddling, feeding, changing, car pooling, park trips, a trip to the zoo, and way too much eating out.

Hey, do you know why the bride was crying? Because she didn't get to marry the best man (ta-da-bum!)...that is the joke TJ just told me;-)

So, I guess I won't get the cute pics of our recent outings on this post but maybe soon. Oh, and I didn't post my end of school pics because they were cruddy and blogger is not user friendly. I tried to use windows live writer but it wouldn't work (sadly). So, I gave up.

I still can't believe it's June 3rd already.

Also, I've had many inquiries about my future with "work" as a nurse and the final answer as of today is (drum roll please):

I'm returning in August for one shift per week. Currently our plan is for me to work Monday night and Tim will go in for his late shift (he works one late shift per week) on Tuesdays so I can sleep a bit after getting off at 6am;-) But, that is months away so I will enjoy my time at home now with my many small children and even then, it's only one day per week.

This wordy post has taken eons as I've been on the phone and parenting as I've tried to make coherent thoughts so I'll end it now and get ready for yet another feeding;-)

Oh, but before I go, do you love my new "Valiant Updates" pic? I soooo love it! I took it myself too-at the park. I wanted to write on the tree trunk with etched type markings but couldn't figure out how or what to say other than "I heart my 4 boys;-)".

Tired yet?

2009-05-28T22:05:00.009-04:00

Oh, that is, of adorable pictures of the Griffinator?

Well, too bad...'cause here are more:

These pics are one of many reasons I wish my BIL, Jason, lived close by-isn't he talented?

He and the baby sis visited over Memorial Day weekend, and of course, met Griffin:

And Jacob fell in love with Jason's hat:

Uncle Jason is a real sweetheart and he let Jacob keep his hat:-)

TJ liked the hat too (which serves nicely as a "before" picture:

...before what you wonder??? Ahhh...my baby boy lost his 4th tooth at 4:19 pm-but to me, it was the most important tooth, as I've been wanting to see his precious grin missing "his 2 front teeth" for some time-ok, so, I've hounded the poor kid for months!!!

-in the second picture if you look close enough, you can even see his tooth coming in-that poor tooth was holding by a thread! He accidentally knocked it out while wiggling a nearby tooth-he, he.

Griffin had 1 month photos today too-here's his outfit:

Lastly, stay tuned: tomorrow is the last day of school for the boys-I'll post my annual "oh how they've grown" post:-)

Oh and, "it's a girl!!!" Congrats Focosi family...we love you-can't wait to hear the name!

Great news (literally)!

2009-05-26T08:00:00.000-04:00

Call me lame but I'm excited...the Walgreens located on Creasy Lane in the Pavillions center is now carrying the Chicago Tribune! I care about this not because I'm an avid Cubs fan (go Cards!) but because the Tribune has the BEST Sunday coupons selection-even better than the Indy Star-YAY! So, now you too have a place where you can find yourself a copy of the best paper each Sunday...

Thanks to Hubby for accomplishing this awesome feat;-)

Happy Memorial Day!

2009-05-25T09:51:00.002-04:00

"Yay! It's Memorial Day" says Griffin.

Hope it's a red letter day!

1 month old-sock it to ya!

2009-05-24T09:49:00.000-04:00

Griffin's 1 month gift to you all...a photo of his first time ever wearing socks (and only second time wearing a short outfi;-)

300 posts!

2009-05-22T23:20:00.001-04:00

And this makes 301... I can't believe my 300th post had the word underwear in the title:-)

A man in his underwear...or maybe just a 4 week old cute baby?

2009-05-22T13:22:00.005-04:00

Who can resist a baby in a onesie? Not me, that's fo' sure! And while I had him all photogenic and all, I snapped about 4 thousand other shots (some of which are below).

And since this is his 4 week update, I'll dote on him some more. Actually though, I don't have much new to report from his 3 week update. He sleeps, he eats, he poops, he pees...and he cries some;-) Ok, to be specific, he is eating about 3 1/2 to 4 ounces each bottle usually around 3 hours apart. He has had some 4 hour stretches and a few 5 hour stretches, but not at night yet. He is still in newborn size diapers and clothes and boy do 3-6 month clothes look ginormous compared to his tiny little body. I was talking to him earlier today and he was just staring into my eyes and then he started making noises back... I do believe this was our first 2-way conversation;-)

I was going to get his pictures done today but he has some baby acne on his face and dry skin, so I'm hoping it will improve over the next few days, but regardless we'll get the pix done-probably after Mem day wknd.

I think that's about it for this update-enjoy the pics and enjoy the LONG weekend;-)

Oh Owey...what an owie.

2009-05-20T19:21:00.002-04:00

This is my good side...what owie?

Is summer here? By the looks of his noggin', the answer is YES!

The first of many wipeouts on the sidewalk this year...ah the joys of boys;-)

3 weeks equals due date

2009-05-17T22:44:00.007-04:00

OK, so I'm a bit late with this post/ post title since my due date was Friday, May 15th and that was the day Griffin turned 3 weeks old. It's more and more true the older I get, but BOY TIME FLIES BY!

Griffin is a sweet, sweet baby boy. He is still a pretty good sleeper and only has short times of alertness...he has had some increased episodes of fussiness due to gas pain which sometimes take a bit of time to calm him down from.

Here is a picture of him from Friday (ok I guess it will be pictures since I can't narrow it down):

I thought Friday would be a very emotional day and I'd do my post and be all tearful about the day but instead, it was pretty busy and turned out to be a fun, upbeat day.

TJ's school had a fundraiser type fair/carnival event and we were concerned about the weather (lots of rain and bad storms were predicted) but all the kids spent the afternoon praying and the weather was great and held out until after 8pm which was incredible but then the storms broke loose! Anyway, here are some photos from the fair:

The boys cousins always come and support FCS each year.

Owen loved the Chick-fil-A cow...he hugged on him and hugged on him. I was saddened to find the Lafayette Chick-fil-A owner that I have come to know and love Carolina Cruz has moved away for a franchise out of state;-( So, they are searching for a new owner of the Lafayette Franchise...wonder if I could qualify for a loan that big?

TJ "walked" a Llama but his Llama was lame! The thing refused to walk around...poor TJ tried and tried to pull him around-I don't know if he got a whole lap in;-)

Jake competed in the obstacle course against his cousin and very pridefully blew her away;-)

Owen loved playing the games for "tickets". He was super cute and surprisingly patient even though he didn't play near as many games as the other kids.

And here are some pics of Owen prior to a haircut (and diaper change):

I thought it was too funny how his saggy diaper was down to his knees (a size 4) and the ankle bracelets (prizes from the fair) really topped off the photo op;-)

Bad news...good news...good news...bad news

2009-05-12T22:25:00.002-04:00

Bad news: At least it was expected-the appointment for Griffin in Indy at Riley Children's Hospital was today. Unfortunately, we got into traffic as the result of a wreck and were over 20 minutes late. Unlike my luck, they agreed to still see us. After two hours of waiting, we were finally taken to an exam room-yes 2 hours.

Good news (kinda?): after a "peek" and I can't emphasize "peek" enough, the MD said Griffin's "issue" was gonna be fine. Just as I expected and it only cost us nearly 5 hours (with traveling), $15 for dinner, and likely a few hundred for the appointment;-)

Good news: I had the gumption *after 2 hours of waiting* to ask the MD about Owen's "issues" needing a future appointment-and AGAIN-so *NOT MY LUCK* and I can't emphasis this enough, SHE SAID, "I'll just look at him now"...OMGoodness!!! Seriously? YAY! While I'm not happy that we sat in miles of traffic or waited at "makes your heart sad just walking in the building to see all the sick kids" Riley, I am so happy she saw Owen then and there. For those of you wondering, she did have a chart made up for him and we WILL be billed for the evaluation, but it saved us from driving back and who knows how long of a wait for both the future appointment and waiting room times.

Bad news: Owen needs surgery;-( My heart breaks because of this, but I know in the grand scheme of things, his surgery and medical issues are minor when compared to many of the precious kiddos Riley serves. As a momma, of course, any procedure on your beloved child is a big deal...but I know he WILL be fine. So, what he needs done is pretty "personal" because it is of a urology nature but the MD said he will undergo general anesthesia and the surgery will take about 2 1/2 hours and be done as an outpatient. She (the MD) made the whole thing sound easy-peasy and frankly, I was so stupified that she saw him at all I didn't think to ask many questions (like how his recovery would be, etc) but he did say the scarring would be very minor and that patients who have this surgery (it's 2 procedures) are very pleased as adults and do very well with it.

So, that's the update...not so bad, eh? Oh, the surgery is Thursday June 12th (or 11th-which ever day is a Thursday) and they don't schedule times since they go by age...so, the book was "full" that day but hopefully Owen will be one of the youngest since he has to be without food or drink after midnight the night before. We find out the day before what time to be there (I hate early for me but am prayerful for it for Owen's sake:-).

Also, I know this whole thing is kinda vague regarding what procedure they will be doing but again, since it's regarding his private area, I am trying to be mindful of how many details I give due to the nature of the internet not being so private. Anyone wanting more details, feel free to email me or call me and I'm very willing to discuss it with you...especially to help you know how to pray specifically or help you make decisions regarding your own kiddos who may need such issues addressed.

Sorry if this post is crazy...I'm pretty tired and have quite a headache.

The week in review:

2009-05-10T21:04:00.008-04:00

Oh wait a minute...these two pictures aren't from last week...well, one is:-)
The top pic is Owen at 2 months old. The bottom is Griffin at two weeks old...not identical, but definitely brothers:-)

Wrapped around my finger already!

Griffin's teddy bear birth mark:-)

Don't you think his "stork bite" resembles a teddy bear? All of the boys have had stork bites...these birth marks are most obvious in infancy and fade over time.

Our crazy Owen!

My t-ball boy Jake!

A picture of Griffin's hospital pictures...the shot I took doesn't do the actual photograph justice...for a 4 day old baby, the picture was great (and free since I'm an employee:-).

The next 3 are pictures of Miles Standish (aka TJ) for his 3rd grade wax museum project...he looked so cute and gave a masterful speech. The first of the 3 pics shows his "pose" that he had to hold in between waiting for the next visitor to press his "button" -he was so serious:-)

What's this you say? Well, it's a cinnamon roll of course-er, uh, I mean Griffin's scrumptious belly sans dried up navel stump:-) He lost this on day 12.

I will be getting up early tomorrow to make the call about Griffin's need to see the urologist (see 2 posts back for details)...his "sore" is looking better already, so I'm guessing he'll be just fine and need no intervention...but since you all know how much I adore MD visits and long car rides with my many small children, we will make the venture whenever we are fit in the schedule to make sure Griffin is well cared for.

That's it for this WIR (week in review). Hope your week and mother's day were great too!!!

Perspective...

2009-05-10T13:50:00.000-04:00

...is good.

Perspective is...

...and this:

...oh and this:

...and finally this:

Mother's Day is a great day for gaining perspective:-)

Thanks for checking out my 4 favorite reasons I'm a mom from my perspective. Today, on Mother's day, I hope you've had a special day. I especially hope that my mom and Tim's mom know how much they are loved and appreciated today (and everyday)...we wouldn't be where or who we are today without you!

Griffin 2 weeks, Owen 2 1/2 years update and appts

2009-05-08T19:47:00.002-04:00

I've found that it is challenging to find info I want from old posts due to my clever, but not always relevant titles, so I made this one no frills.

This post is definitely not in an upbeat nor cheerful tone...I'm so down in the dumps. I want to say I know everything will be fine and that God will see us through (because this is TRUE) but my heart is letting me be-well, down in the dumps.

Here are the stats:

Owen-30 month check-up: weighs in at 22 pounds 7 1/2 ounces (was 20 pounds 11 ounce at 2 years), 32 3/8 inches tall (was 31 1/2 inches at 2 years), 49 cm head circumference (was 48.3 cm at 2 years), 10th % height for weight-which has fallen off considerably making my lil' guy more "skinny" than I thought.

Griffin-1st MD appt/2 week well-baby visit: 7 pounds even, 19 1/2 inches long, 36.3 cm head circumference, 25% height for weight-not bad lil' baby.

For Owen-how this measures up: Not surprisingly, Owen is sticking to his own growth curve which is many standard deviations beneath the 3rd percentile for other kids his age. We, of course, don't need a CDC growth chart to tell us this-we see it all around us when we meet other kids his age and in the tags of his clothes (typically one whole year smaller or more). His head size is fine. And as I wrote above, he is getting pretty skinny-yet I notice chunkier thighs and he seems so big now that Griffin is here;-). He still drinks whole milk (like a champ) and eats and eats so there's no improving his thinness right now.

For Griffin how this measures up: Griffin was 6# 12 oz at birth and got down to 6# 6 oz before leaving the hospital. So, he's up in weight in a great "weigh". He is in the 10th % weight, 10th % length, 25th % head circumference. Interestingly enough, has is our first to have such a small (relatively) noggin'. The other boys (even Owen) have had big ole heads so for Griffin to have a head in the 25th % is a shock to me...my petite headed boy! It's a first! He will likely catch up to a more typical 25th-50th percentile in the near future.

Now for why I'm in the dumps...both boys need to see a specialist-in fact, both need to see the same type of specialist (but for different reasons) ironically. They are being referred to a pediatric Urologist. I think I'm disappointed on many levels-

*Oh and please note-I'm not sure, but I have heard if you post "actual terminology" on the internet, freaks and weirdos will search and find you so I'm going with mom terms and other aka terminology which I hope you'll be able to decipher...not trying to be paranoid-just wanting to not illicit pervs to the VU blog;-)

Ok, let's start with Owen since he was the first to get referred at this afternoon appts. Since Owen was born, I've mentioned that I was worried that he may have an issue with undescended "fam jewels". He also has other issues that concerned me with this general area. We'd already seen a ped urologist for a possible hypospadia early in infancy and that MD nearly laughed us away...he must see some bad stuff as he said Owen was fine...which was great. As Owen has grown and the MD's continually assured me he would "grow (literally) out of these issues" he hasn't. So, today I pointed out my concerns (again) and this time, our MD agreed that while it's no medical emergency, Owen does need to be seen and likely will need surgical intervention---WTH??? This makes me ticked. Owen's chances of infertility and testicular cancer increase I don't know how many fold due to this not be addressed like uh, 26 months ago!!! Plus, no one wants to hear that their concerns are founded and that their precious boy likely needs surgical intervention. I already worry about his future...now to add to his very likely petite stature, he could be infertile and have life threatening cancer too?!?

Overreacting? I'd say, I'm more in shock-and frustrated that I didn't try harder sooner to have my concerns addressed.

Now for the big whammy: maybe you'll remember a recent post where I mentioned a newborn making you worry about things like spitting up and circumcision healing...

Guess what? Again, I didn't follow my mommy instincts---UGH! I called the pedi office the day after we got home from the hospital because I was concerned about Griff's circ and a "sore" that looked suspicious to me...well, I was totally blown off by the on call MD and told it was a normal 5 day sounding issue-yet I sure hadn't heard of nor seen anything like this before. I decided since Griffin was having no signs of pain, fever, infection, etc that I would let it go.

Big shock--today when I pointed it out (no, it has not improved in 9 days) the MD was immediately concerned. Great! But what does concern mean? He said he thought Griffin would need to be referred to a peds urologist too and I joked that maybe they could get them in on the same day and he very seriously responded, no, Griffin needs to be seen right away. He actually stepped out of the exam room to go call in for an appt himself. When he came back in, he explained it could take some time to hear back from the calls he put in but explained that he wants us to do special dressings on Griff's "pee-pee" and to be extremely aware of any signs of infection, redness, swelling etc. He proceeded to explain that aggressive treatment would need to be sought including blood cultures and possibly IV antibiotics if any of these signs appear or if he gets a fever or any signs of illness.

To know me is to know I'm a worrying spaz...I'm not much of a dressing changer, I panic at signs of fever, and surgery-sends me into fully blown anxiety. I know having boys pretty much assures me scars will be in my future-or should I say theirs...but I wasn't thinking surgical scars and certainly not in such "private" regions. I can't *stand* going to the MD...Owen is so much more than a handful at the MD's office-I can't even convey it-you wouldn't believe me anyway.

To update Griffin's "issue", the MD called me about an hour after we got home 9yes, he called me, himself) to tell me who to call (but not till Monday) and to be prepared to trek down there ON MONDAY. I'm so dumbfounded right now...how did a no big deal circ turn into a serious issue that may need aggressive treatment?

Oh and to further the shock, my MD said he's never seen anything like it...why do they say such things? I love him, BTW-he's great and I appreciate him not sugar coating something he found that concerns him-I'm just venting-sorry.

So, I guess this will "to be continued" until I reach some MD in Indy's secretary on Monday who will likely have no clue why I'm calling or how to handle me. I'm just sayin'.

I haven't been good at asking for prayer lately-but I am asking now. I really need peace about this. And, I really *really* would appreciate prayers especially now that Griffin would stay healthy and have no signs that would require us to need medical intervention prior to meeting with this specialist. I also am really hoping that if it is necessary to see Griffin right away that the urologist will get him in easily and I can get all the oodles of childcare/help necessary to have a little less stress traveling to the MD and being able to focus on what she is saying since today Owen was such a maniac, I could hardly follow the MD as he was giving me all this head-spinning info. I also would appreciate prayer for Owen as he IS old enough to know when he sees a doctor and he's not a fan of having his 'bottom' assessed. Plus, his needs are not emergent thus, who knows how long it will be until he can be seen (sometimes these specialists have no openings for eons!).

I don't know what else-I am rambling at this point being that I am at home with the boys sans husband on a Friday night...sad and concerned. A long weekend will ensue.

I'm trying to find a place of following what I know (none of what happened today surprised God or is outside of His plan) and not what I feel (like breaking into to the Hostess store and eating Ho-ho's until I hurt no more:-). Maybe I'll put on some Wild Hogs (a fav movie) and violate some Cheetos.

Griffin at 12 days...

2009-05-06T17:30:00.002-04:00

I noticed a few moments ago while burping Griffin that the way he moved his face revealed a dimple on his right cheek...this got me very emotional (don't know why) but I face booked the finding and then realized if I don't blog it, I have no record.

I also noticed during his diaper change that his dried navel thingy (drawing a blank on what it is called-duh) that needs to fall off is all but off...which means tub bath time for the big boy-which means my baby is already changing...it's too soon. His little legs seem chunkier and he's become more alert and lifting his head all around and keeping his eyes open me and staring at me-which is so precious to gaze into his eyes and revel at the gift he is.

Thank you Jesus!

Proof...and randomness

2009-05-06T00:48:00.006-04:00

I mentioned a couple posts ago about the most special cuddle times with Griffin...luckily, he's a repeat performer with the camera inches away:

In other news: I watched the Biggest Loser tonight (from DVR, of course) and I want to share that I feel it was the best, most riveting and inspiring episode ever. The 4 remaining contestants were sent home for 30 days (off the ranch after approx 16 weeks) and told in 26 days, they'd be in a challenge to complete a full marathon---WOW! And I thought my 5K about a year ago was impressive. The fastest time was a near 5 hour completion. The longest time set by a nearly still 300 pound well over 40 year old (Ron) was 13 hours...but he has a really bad knee-I'm in awe of ALL 4 of them in their will and determination-not to mention people train for months plus for a marathon-they had just 26 days...man. I could've bawled watching Ron complete the event.

Lastly, I wanted to mention how close to home "swine flu" now is to me...

A child has recovered from it here in Lafayette. I'm so glad to hear about the full recovery but very sad to know how much more serious I should be taking this epidemic. A child like Owen or Griffin could easily die from complications of such an ailment. Plus, our local hospital (where I just had Griffin) has announced an immediate limit to visitors-they have chosen to limit visitors to essential visitors only and are screening everyone who enters in attempts to limit the real possibility of widespread outbreak of flu to staff and patients...isn't that alarming? Maybe I'm just over reacting but I'm sure glad I stocked up on hand sanitizer today;-)

*Update* The visitor restriction was lifted this morning-thank goodness.

Misc. deals:

2009-05-05T15:51:00.002-04:00

Again, sorry to those of you who read for non-deal related posts but today was a "good deal day" and what's more fun than getting good deals? Answer: sharing about them!

Here goes in no specific order:

Walgreens-

I love Walgreens! I know I am a bit biased and I know they have way more patience with me and my 2 and 5 year old terrorizing the store than they would for the average customer but it's a great place for deals-crazy kids in toe or not!

Here's what I got today for a total of under $25 and I still have $9 in register rewards (so it's like having $9 more in cash to spend any time in the next two weeks!!!)

*Please note-yes, I did have formula coupons making the 5 bottles/cans of formula free but since I got them within these 3 transactions I thought I'd pass along... and I will share exactly how I got everything since so many of you have asked how you too can get "good" deals.

Transaction one:

3 bottles Similac- free after manufacturer coupons
2 cans enfamil-free after manufacturer coupons
Mr Clean Magic erasers -six of them on sale 2 for $5 ( I had 2 coupons from this past Sundays paper for B1G1) and two 75 cents off coupons from a coupon booklet I signed up to receive in the mail (sorry I can't remember what it was called at the moment or I'd send you to the site to get yours too). Then I rec'vd $2 in register rewards since it was a deal buy $10 in Mr. Clean qualifying products, get $2 back in RR.
Bayer aspirin quick dissolve crystals-$2.50 (but I got back a $2.50 RR for purchasing them).
Colgate sensitive toothpaste- $4.49 minus $1 off coupon from their website=$3.49 (but I got back a $4.50 RR for purchasing them-making it better than free)
Pert plus for men-two of them-two for $5 and I had 2 coupons from Sundays paper for $1.50 off each making them just $1 each and I got $2 in RR back)
Right guard extreme $3 and I had a $1 off coupon printable from their website-making it $2 and I got a $2 RR back
Total should've been $40 but I paid $15 OOP for all this

2nd Transaction:

Bayer aspirin quick dissolve crystals-$2.50 (but I got back a $2.50 RR for purchasing them).
Colgate sensitive toothpaste- $4.49 minus $1 off coupon from their website=$3.49 (but I got back a $4.50 RR for purchasing them-making it better than free)
Pert plus for men-two of them-two for $5 and I had 2 coupons from Sundays paper for $1.50 off each making them just $1 each and I got $2 in RR back)
Right guard extreme $3 and I had a $1 off coupon printable from their website-making it $2 and I got a $2 RR back
Then my husband walked up and gave me a $3 RR he had earned for Pepsi products for $3off and I used it to help pay for this order so my total OOP was $7

3rd Transaction-time to use those RR's I just earned!
2 Hallmark Mother's day cards! -$7
Wet ones Antibacterial wipes-$2.50 plus, big shock a $1 off coupon from their website
99 cent walgreens brand hand sanitizer
a battery for our remote (one of those small disk type ones)-$4

Used Used $12 in RR paid $1.09 OOP
Total OOP was $23
Total value for all items was over $90 (would be more with sales tax!!!).

*Please note, I do get a small % off being that my hubby is a Wag employee but it is small and my your transactions would look very similar if you took advantage of similar deals;-)

Ok, another deal-Sonic has half price drinks 2-4pm M-F (I think not on S/S though) and I got a 44 oz diet coke (didn't splurge and get a real fruit slush like I wanted;-) and when I paid my whole $1.06 I got a coupon back for a call in survey (took 1 minute) to get a free 44 oz drink on my next visit!

Another thing to pass along- My local church Faith Baptist out on 26 East is having Vacation Bible school June 22-26th M-F (Yes, that's EVERY night free of kiddos ages 3 but potty trained thru 5th grade!!!) 6-8:30pm!!!!! A whole 2 1/2 hours every night to get errands done or go on a date with hubby-wa-who! Ok, so for me I will still have Owen and Griffin but VBS is great for kids-period! I know a few other reputable churches are having VBS too-most in the mornings-so check around and enroll your kiddos-they'll love it and you'll love the free time!!!-to coupon shop perhaps???

Bzz Agent: this is a website I was turned onto to try out. It's free and it's like product reviewing. My first review just came in the mail-I'm stoked and you'll be hearing more about this product as soon as I try it (especially if you want a free sample and a coupon!!!) here's what I got:

Inside your BzzKit, you'll find a full-size tube of Root Awakening® Nourishing Moisture Shampoo and Root Awakening® Nourishing Moisture Conditioner. Pretty awesome, right? What's even more awesome is this health-boosting duo is formulated with natural Eucalyptus for stronger, shinier, and 3X healthier* hair, with gorgeous style*.

Oh, and what's even more cool than 2 full-size free bottles of product are coupons for $2 off to share and samples of the shampoo and conditioner I'm previewing-plus, 2 spray bottles of detangling spray...I don't even get tangles so I will definitely share my samples!!! Whole point is this first attempt at a product review is already exciting as I can always use shampoo and it takes only moments to write a review to give them feedback-so this is win-win! I'll be sharing my opinion about it once I've actually tried it but for now-I've smelled it and it smells great;-)

I also got a free issue [today] of Martha Stewart Living from another free trial-one year-no cc input, no payment, no s/h from rewardsgold.com -I believe.

Lastly, in honor of Cinco De Mayo (is that how you spell it?) I went to Don Pablos today (had a coupon:-)-I saw an advertisement on our table for their Habaneros Club, inquired and rec'vd a card that I came home and had to register online. Just for registering, I got a free dip sampler and was entered into a contest (contest, not program ends in 2 days though so hurry in to get your card) for $50/month for a year of Don Pablos gift cards...cool deal. Plus, there are other perks of joining, etc.

So, that summarizes my good deal day-remember, I don't find all these deals by spending hours searching and flipping the Sunday Paper-most of them come from Internet sites like the ones on my side bar-especially money saving mom...she always has the Wag deals published by Sunday each week-some weeks are lack luster-some weeks rock like this one did!

PS You may wonder-where are your 4 gazillion kiddos while you extensively typed out this boring post? Answer: 3 oldest in back yard-right to my right, which i can see and hear from our office window-I love my new fence!!! Griffin is sleeping soundly next to me:-) Yay for naps-ahem, I mean newborns who sleep 23 hours a day.

PPS I really hope this post helps someone save some $$$ during these challenging $$$ times:-)

PPPS I may post pics of my deals later, but right now I'm feeding a precious new baby-mine of course!

No proof...

2009-05-04T21:46:00.002-04:00

I don't have a camera in reach to prove it, but I've had a precious baby laying on my lounging slouched comfy self for almost 2 hours...you know what I mean? It's the kind of snuggling we long for-just beneath my chest, on his belly so his precious baby head is just within kissing distance..I can smell him...I can feel him breathe and sigh and readjust every now and again. It's the most precious time-even Tim commented-he said "wow, that's the best".

And I totally don't mind typing with just one hand:-)

How much longer will it last?...likely just moments as he'll likely wake anytime for his now 1/2 hour overdue feeding:-)

A post of his own-Happy 2 1/2 years old Owen!

2009-05-03T21:21:00.003-04:00

I can't believe Owen is 2 1/2 years old TODAY!

What is this budding 30 month old up to these days?

Well, we'll go head to toe...

Head: He has hair that will finally lay down but he's still sportin' the Kevin Bacon Footloose look. He has great vision-and still those beautiful blue eyes...that frequently have big crocodile tears in them...he's quite the Drama King! He has had a pretty clean nose-few colds or illnesses since he's been out of childcare. He, of course, got a cold the minute we brought Griffin home;-) He's got all of his teeth (that he's supposed to have:-) He finally "teethed" those final 2 bottom teeth. And he will shoot you the most ornery smile if the mood strikes him right. He talks up a storm. He knows all of our names and you will frequently hear him asking wear his bro-vers are...he pretty much never stops talking. And he will break out into song when the mood strikes him. He loves to count (to 12 I believe) and knows a truck load of ABC's(he says up to H without error and then it's a hodgepodge of vowels and consonants-just skipping some along the way to the finale of X, Y AND Z-next time won't you sing with me???).

I think he's around 22 pounds...no idea on height but he's wearing 12-18 month pants. I tried to buy him 24 month and 2T shorts today (my first outing since getting home) and even they are big on the poor lil' guy;-( He has a check-up Friday with baby brother so, I'll be posting the official stats after those appts.

Toe: He's quite the runner and he LOVES to put things over his head (like blankets and hats) so he can't see and then walk around and bump into things and spin around so much he can't stand up anymore-weirdo;-) He loves to play outside with his bro-vers and do whatever they are doing and play with whoever they are playing with. He wears size 5 shoes and today while I was out, I found him a pair of skechers at Toys R us originally $38 for $4...ahhhh-the bargains continue!!!

He's enjoying his new "chores" of getting me or Tim a diaper for Griffin and a wipe from the wipe container. He then throws out the "dirty" diaper. He's pretty good at these chores and he never complains or says "no" to our request (at least for these duties...he says "no" to us all the time about other stuff...quickly followed by "the look" from a parent that equals a quick "I obey";-)

Anyway, he's a great kid! He's really starting to be more of a big boy in my eyes than a baby. He's also SOOOO ready to be potty trained...I'm just so not into it right now.

Hmmm...what else? I really could go on and on about this kid-he's really a good boy...he just has hit the true "terrible twos" phase too so tantrums are possible at the most inopportune time...like everyday when he visited me at the hospital;-)

Oh, he's BIG into Scooby Doo...and not the New Scooby Doo's...but the classic-more "scary" ones. He sings the opening song and thank GOD for freespot as there are about 15 or so episodes at any moment available...he asks to watch Scooby about 4 times a day. Oh well, when I give in, it makes for good cuddle time;-)

He wants to sit like TJ and Jake do at the island counter and not in his chair...problem here is the likelihood of his doom if he falls off the bar stools for a 36 inch counter height...ugh. He also wants to drink out of a regular cup-not a sippy and eat cereal with milk like his brothers and all the stuff I'm just not ready for him to graduate into.

Ok, I'm just babbling by now-here are some cute pics of the "birthday" boy:

1 week old already!

2009-05-01T20:07:00.003-04:00

I can't believe this time last week I had a baby in the NICU on CPAP struggling to breathe and now...wow-what a difference a week makes!

I'm feeling much better too (just super tired)...and I plan an update on each member of the family sometime this weekend. This little 1 week update was all I could muster up for tonight;-)

On the news...

2009-04-30T23:27:00.002-04:00

Here is the link for a partial story segment of our 7 seconds of fame...the segment that ran actually showed me holding Griffin and had my voice playing and showed Tim and Jake and Owen in the Van. If you look closely after clicking the link, the car seat is ours (in our van) and that is Owen in the background;-)

Worth the wait?

2009-04-30T21:40:00.001-04:00

It's not a question...it's a statement.

Griffin WAS worth the wait!

Eat, Burp, Poop, Sleep, Repeat

2009-04-29T18:22:00.004-04:00

This is a summation of how Griffin spends his time. Except last night-he skipped the sleep part;-) And he often poos way more than I remember newborns possibly being able to. Seriously. It's all coming back to me...sleep deprivation of the parents of a newborn-ahhhhh.

He's been really sweet though and he has the most kissable face and head! I love his new baby scent-I could snuggle and hold him forever.

The boys have all been quite sweet with him so far as well. Tim has been a great and patient daddy (and husband). And I have been a sleepy momma.

I had forgotten how the littlest things send panic into me-diaper rash, spitting up, gagging, the healing of a circumcision-I feel like a first time mom again. I could make a mountain outta any molehill.

I'm so glad to be home as a fanily. I can hardly believe Griffin is 5 days old already.

Going home and on the news...

2009-04-28T09:20:00.002-04:00

Today we are packing up and going home! Wouldn't you know I am soooo sleepy today too-I think this fabulous rainy day isn't helping.

Anyway, I was just woke up to a coworker coming in and excitedly exclaiming "it's Renay"! She informed me she was in my room to ask me (but she didn't know it was me) to help by doing a segment for the news on car seat safety. SO, I sleepily agreed and I think I said some lame things on camera and now Tim is down at the circle drive allowing them to demonstrate our car seat being installed.

I bet I look lovely;-) And bet Tim was shocked too as I sprung it on him via phone as he was on his way with donuts for me;-) I don' know when the segment will be but will post later if I find out.

It'a a beautiful thing...

2009-04-27T21:59:00.003-04:00

to see all your boys together

for the first time ever

and to know

they just love

each other

because they are brothers.

So this is how it's supposed to be...

2009-04-27T13:10:00.002-04:00

I took this picture of me and Griffin just moments ago-he's now officially discharged from the NICU!!! I haven't had my own child room in with me during my post partum recovery period since TJ-over 9 years ago. Wow! So this is how it's supposed to be;-)

Day 4...

2009-04-27T09:01:00.002-04:00

Catchy titles, eh?

This morning has been a harder one than the others so far. I woke up frequently last night. I also had been trying to wean myself off the pain medication 1) because it made me so foggy and sleepy and 2) because I was not having that bad of pain. Unfortunately, less pain meds=more pain. *NOTE* ridiculous severe stabbing pain that I didn't know was possible. *Additional Note* there are no awards for being on one pill vs 2-take 2.

So, my doctor came in to check up on me while I was having a "beat myself up" over the pain meds thing and decided to keep me one more day to make sure I can manage-which was probably a good move because I could seriously hardly walk 10 feet to the bathroom. He also is doing Griffin's circumcision *ouch* as I type. Griffin's nurse said his bilirubin levels are down so he may come off the lights-they hadn't rounded on him yet though. I think my MD was wanting him to come into my room and allow me time with him tonight also. This is all good news as I would guess it means we could go home together tomorrow.

That's my mid-morning update. I'm sure I'll post more pics, etc later;-)

Day 3...

2009-04-26T21:10:00.004-04:00

Griffin has had a good day and I'm feeling on the upswing too.

He has been wrapped in a bili-blanket today because his bilirubin levels were high. Very expected with NICU babies.

The boys visited and we had a "celebratory" meal that the hospital provides...I took the photo:-)

I'm guessing Griffin will be able to go home shortly after I am discharged tomorrow-I'd say no more than 1-2 days, but I know he may be here longer.

That's it for today as I've been mostly sleepy and don't have much more to report;-)

Lots of progress...

2009-04-25T21:53:00.003-04:00

Griffin has remained off any type of breathing aides since late last night (yay!:-).

I also got to hold him today (for 3 HOURS!!!). And he started bottle feeding today-and I got to give him his FIRST feeding-which he took like a CHAMP!

And, my itching is GONE!;-)

Here are a few photos of him-the first is from this am before the scalp IV was removed, but he looked so cute, I couldn't resist posting it.:

Hospital Day 2 -4:30am

2009-04-25T04:10:00.003-04:00

I'm tired of itching...

I was acceptent (can't figure out how to spell this one;-) of it since it meant no incisional pain but now that I am losing ground on pain control and still itching like mad, it is making me feel more and more out of control. As an example, I scratched so much in my sleep that I pulled my IV out which means on oral pain and itching meds for now-which means less effective;-( But, again, it is all worth it as we have Griffin to show for it;-)

I just called over to NICU to talk to his nurse and a HUGE praise!!! Griffin is off CPAP and they even aren't using a nasal cannula right now-which, I think means his gorgeous little face and head are uncovered with bandages and equipment-YAY!

I think I will head off to see him and take more pics. How encouraging this news is. Now if only the itching could fade away...

Thank you all for praying and commenting, etc. It means so much to feel so much love;-) Please continue to pray for me and Griffin at the hospital and for Tim and the boys at home...they can visit me, but it's just so hard for them to understand and to be super quiet and self-controlled. I would love it if Tim were at my side tonight-I miss him so much.

Love and hugs to all:-)

13 hours old...

2009-04-24T23:27:00.002-04:00

And I got to hold Griffin for about an hour...it was beautiful:-)

Happy Birthday Griffin!-more updates

2009-04-24T16:17:00.005-04:00

Our precious boy is 8 hours old now.

I have so much I could share and my heart is aching that I sit here all alone typing a blog post instead of cuddling Griffy.

My mind is a bit foggy...there's certainly less clarity than I'd like-but I am DEFINITELY not complaining since I am sure part of the "fogginess" is due to pain meds and the meds I'm getting for the itching (which is only a little helpful;-).

Griffin is in the NICU in his little private room-I got to visit him and it was sooo sad to see him all alone in the room. It was also sad to see him all swollen and on CPAP (which is less than being ventilated *good* but more than a nasal cannula. He is on room air though which means he is only receiving the pressure from the machine and the reminder to breathe/help him work less-and not needing O2 is so good. While I was visiting him they came in to place an umbilical catheter. I left at that point because I felt I might add stress to the procedure to be breathing down them trying to do their jobs.

I am so shocked that I am all alone and not getting that precious time alone with him-just me and him. I haven't even held him yet (aside from the quick odd angle in the OR when they were trying to whisk him away to the NICU. But I am very thankful to have been to see him twice already.

I am not so down trodden that I can't see the bright side (how very few) and I still know this is ALL part of GOD's plan for Griffin's life.

Here is a photo of the boys visit...we had a birthday party for Griffin complete with homemade cupcakes and singing-it's too bad of course that Griffin couldn't be here but the boys seemed to enjoy it. They can't see Owen in the NICU due to RSV season and other bugs that hang on this time of year, but we had quite the slide show of pica on the laptop;-)

I am feeling very tired all of a sudden so I will try to edit and post more later...

Introducing Griffin...

2009-04-24T09:00:00.004-04:00

He's here!

Griffin Isaiah Valiant

Friday April 24th, 2009 7:55 am

6 pounds, 12 ounce, 19 1/2 inches

Please pray ...Griffin has unfortunately experienced some challenges much like what Jacob was born with (Called HMD) and will be in the NICU for an undefined amount of time (likely at least 4 days:-(...and I am having uncontrollable itching and feelings of fidgityness (new word;-).

I will update more soon but this needed to be quick;-)

I am trying to remain upbeat in spite of these set backs but honestly am dissappointed and seeking "why".

Here's my gorgeous boy (at least the newest one:-)

My wish for you...

2009-04-24T04:17:00.002-04:00

A note from mommy to her soon to be born baby boy Griffin Isaiah Valiant.

Precious Griffin,

It's just hours before your arrival into the world...what a big place for you to get to explore as you grow. Right now I'm not thinking so much about your future-as in what you'll be when you grow up or who you'll marry. I'm much more focused on God's plan for you for today.

I can't wait to meet you.

I can't wait to see your precious baby face and precious baby hands and precious baby feet.

I can't wait to smell your precious baby skin.

I can't wait to see your daddy and brothers meet you.

I can't wait for others to meet you as well.

I can't imagine loving you more than I have along while you were growing inside me.

Griffin, I pray the Lord has BIG plans for you...I KNOW He loves you more than I can even fathom. I know He loves me more than anyone else on this earth does as well.

Nothing we can do can drive Him away and put a wedge in our relationship with Him. I pray it is this way between you and I as well.

The Lord has planned for you to be in our lives. You have a wonderful Daddy, Tim-who will play with you, read to you, and sing to you. He will even get you all riled up before bedtime and get you in to trouble;-) You also have 3 amazing brothers:
TJ is 9 1/2 and in the 3rd grade. He's so bright and caring. He's a reader. He loves to play leggos and explore outdoors. Jacob is 5 1/2 and will start Kindergarten in the fall. He's quite the spitfire. He looks up to TJ and wants to be bigger. Jacob has a big heart (and temper). He's a great helper to us too. Owen is 2 1/2. He's a handful...a sweet miracle little boy who rarely stops talking. He is SOOO observant. He's a little smartie pants and always on the go...but we don't quite think he understands who you are yet or how you will change (enhance) our family.

Well sweet baby, the cameras are waiting to shoot tons of photos. Our cell phones are charged to call everyone with an update on your arrival. In just 3 short hours, you should be in your daddy's arms...a safe bet is that neither of us will be able to see your precious face clearly through our streams of tears.

Griffin, you have been worth the wait. I'm sooooo excited to meet you.

Love and tight cuddles to you very soon,

Your mommy, Renay

PS While I was writing this to you, a song was playing called "My Wish" by Rascal Flatts...the lyrics follow...but I must say, my biggest wish for your life is that you Love the Lord early and choose paths in life that show others why He is the way.

I hope the days come easy and the moments pass slow,
and each road leads you where you want to go,
and if you're faced with a choice, and you have to choose,
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you.
and if one door opens to another door closed,
I hope you keep on walkin' 'til you find the window,
if it's cold outside,
show the world the warmth of your smile,
but more than anything, more than anything,

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
your dreams stay big, your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
and while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

I hope you never look back, but ya never forget,
all the ones who love you, in the place you left,
I hope you always forgive, and you never regret,
and you help somebody every chance you get,
Oh, you find God's grace, in every mistake,
and always give more then you take.

But more than anything, Yeah, and more than anything,

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
and while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
your dreams stay big, your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
and while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.
this is my wish
I hope you know somebody loves you
may all your dreams stay big
(Repeat)
(Chorus)

7 pounds

2009-04-21T22:30:00.003-04:00

Above is a photo of Owen at 3 months of age- I posted he was 7 plus pounds here:

3 months old

Today the U/S technician said she is "guessing" Griffin will weigh 7 pounds. She has been spot on with her own kiddos within days of their births. I think he will be bigger...but don't care since his health is (of course) my primary goal.

I just went through bunches of pics of Owen at 7 pounds...wow...3 months old.

What an amazing kid he is.

All is on *plan* for Griffin's arrival Friday morning. Since Facebook is usually blocked by the hospital-you'll have to come "here" for first reports and photos. I doubt they'll allow my laptop in recovery, so it may be a few hours before there are posts (if you think I'm serious about recovery and the laptop thing, you may not know me as well as you think-my priority aside from having lots of photos snapped will be finally loving all over this baby. He's definitely been worth the wait-contrary to my "often" whiny posts;-).

Seriously.

I'm excited, nervous, scared, elated, etc. all bound in one "ready to go" momma.

Four boys...what a job promotion.

Say it isn't so...

2009-04-20T20:35:00.002-04:00

What's Lafayette coming to? Read more here.

Sunday will be a bittersweet one:-( Sorry mom...will you ever visit me again?

Griffin's birthday weather forecast

2009-04-20T15:00:00.002-04:00

From weather.com :

Friday
Apr 24

Partly Cloudy

81°-Hi
58°-Lo

Go figure. Our first 80 degree day (it's been rainy for 2 and is supposed to be tomorrow too) and I'll be having surgery.

Oh well. He's worth the wait and far supersedes a sunny spring day;-)

Tomorrow is my LAST MD appt, monitoring session and ultrasound-yippee!

Then, I get to start all over for Griffin's well-baby check-ups. And Owen has a 2 1/2 year check up coming. I have quite the list for the MD as Owen's small size and lack of catch up are always in the back of my mind-I'm not worried about him, I just want to make sure we are diligently caring for him and don't miss something since he's like the smartest and cutest 2 year old-a little bias maybe.

Just so ya know:

Bottles sterilized: check
Formula (at least some) on hand: check
Baby Clothes washed and ready: check
Baby blankets washed and ready: check
Cradle that Griffin probably won't sleep in: check
Diapers (probably worthless newborn sized;-): check
5000 diaper wipes: check, check

Am I forgetting anything? I think we are ready:-)

36 weeks and 36 dollars

2009-04-19T23:17:00.003-04:00

I can't believe I didn't post my 36 week milestone on Thursday...it wasn't much to share. Then I had my non-stress test Friday which went South quickly and required yet another extensive (aka expensive) test via ultrasound. So, a Biophysical profile was done just to make sure Griffin is behaving. He passed the BPP but failed his NST, so the gist here is I'm still preggo, Griffey is hangin' out-oh, bottoms up now apparently. I was shocked to be told his big ole noggin is down again. I don't really have any clue what any of this means-likely due to already taking my ambien tonight and feeling quite loopy;-)

I am excited about the end in site...5 days to go. What a blessing and SCARY realization. I'm going to be a mommy again!

So, about the $36 ---I thought it fitting to share my $36 purchase from Kmart...if you hadn't heard, my Lafayette KMart is doubling coupons up to $2 (so if you have some high value q's...you can get some very good deals. Here's my finds pic:

I spent less than $1 per item (averaged out). As you can see from the photo, I have continued the baby wipe stock up. I also found the best deal on our type of laundry detergent. A huge percentage of my finds were entirely free. The checker even noticed that I only had one item that wasn't free (a cadbury egg after Easter deal I couldn't pass up ;-)

What you can't see but I highly recommend you go in for is a great card deal-they sell American Greetings and have in store Q's available-the coupon says $2 off 3 cards, but it will be doubled to $4 so it will be $4 off 3 cards-fun;-)

They weren't out of a ton of stuff yet and it was pretty slow when I was there. It was my first time using super doubles-but it was fun (and tiring).

I may go back for the card deal and a few others but otherwise, I think we are stocked up and ready for Griff's arrival. I nervous, scared, giddy, and all around feeling inadequate to be his mommy.

I hope you will be able to enjoy some delicious deals from double coupons from KMart this week;-)

Last minute disclaimer-remember, I am highly ambienized so i fear this is a lame post. no making fun or I'll cry even more;-(

Best money saving tip EVER...

2009-04-14T20:15:00.002-04:00

Another one just for the ladies though...(not like any guys read my blog-except maybe my BIL Jason;-).

Ok, go to your favorite super center-you know, the kind that sell both groceries and clothes. What you do is go in, go to the "undergarments" section and grab some sports bras or even a bathing suit will do. Now go into the dressing room and try it/them on. Look in the ginormous 4 X 8 mirror under the ever so flattering fluorescent lighting. Alright-that should do it...now go shop for food...

If you are like me, you are guaranteed to buy less food (especially less treat type or snacky food;-).

In case you are wondering and since I am on a TMI kick, I went to Walmart (for a quick return) and while I was there, I decided to grab a new sports bra-but, I tried it on. So I didn't buy it. It was sad. Do you think the baby could weigh in around 70 pounds? I hope so but I'm seriously doubting it.

Weight watchers in 3 weeks anyone?

For ladies only...

2009-04-14T14:33:00.003-04:00

I mean it fellas-this is your last chance to avoid reading about girl things...

MEGA find ALERT!!!!

Okay ladies, I know my blog isn't intended for things like coupons, deals, and samples, but some are too incredibly good not to share-so here goes...

I signed up about 2 weeks ago for a sample from BeingGirl.com

I don't remember how I heard about the sample so I can't even give a blogger credit, but here is what it said it includes:

Sign up now to get a free beinggirl Sample Kit. Just fill out the quick survey below to begin! Included in the kit are:2 Regular Tampax Pearl Tampons, 1 Lite Tampax Pearl Tampon, 1 Always Infinity Feminine Pad, 2 Always Pantiliners, and 1 Always Feminine Wipe.

Well, well, well...today my sample arrived-actually 2 complete samples and here is what was inside:

Now if you know me, you know the last thing I would talk about-and certainly not blog about is ones need for feminine hygiene products...however, and it's a biggie- can you see on the lower left hand of the picture-YES ladies, it's 2-count em' 2 coupons for "free happiness"-the new ALways Infinity 18 count package of pads. This is a huge value and frankly since I'm not a fan of pads (TMI, I am soooo aware) but must have them since I'm about to have a baby-well-you know;-)

So, head over to beinggirl.com for your mega sample of pads, liners and tampons plus coupons (even some coupons for tampons) and rejoice in being a girl!

BTW, when I signed up for this sample, I answered all the survey q's and such in less than 5 minutes and it ended with telling me I wasn't eligible for this sample-yet I received 2 so who knows:-)

It's the final countdown...

2009-04-14T00:12:00.002-04:00

are you singing along with me?

10 days (or less)...

that's 1 MD appt and 1 more ultrasound and 2 more monitoring sessions!

wa-who!

Todays appt took an impressive record breaker of only 1 hour 20 minutes including MD exam, ultrasound and monitoring. Griffin is SOOOOO active:-)

I measured 38 weeks (mind you I'm 35 weeks 3 days) and my fluid levels remained steadily high.

So, this is kinda a boring update but Kara requested it.

I must share some awesome deals at Walgreens this week...

If you are not familiar with register rewards (RR), you must educate yourself on these precious babies.

The deals include:

Skintimate shave gel-free with RR
Colgate Max Fresh toothbrush-free with RR 9you can easily find a printable coupon online as well)
Scuunci (sp?) hair tie thingies-free with RR
Chapstick-free with RR
Also, if you are familiar with he easy saver rebate program, they have a rebate for a free ink refill plus many other great deals through 4-25 I think.

Also on tax day (April 15th) here are some deals for ya:
Cinnabon
TGIFridays

I have found many other great deals through my side bar blog links this week-have fun!

Missed 35 week update and Easter pics

2009-04-13T07:55:00.005-04:00

I don't really know how I missed it...but I did miss it.

I guess at this point not much seems any different-well-formed baby getting bigger: check.

Well formed momma belly getter bigger: check.

Erratic emotions and hormones: check.

Baby in unknown but likely non-head down position: check.

Daily (sometimes twice daily) need for pepcid: check, check.

Just for more fun, my BIL Jason thinks he has the guess for Griffin game in the bag...so he took home his prize already-he was awarded with 2-yes 2 bottles of skintimate shave gel. If he doesn't turn out to be the winner, no worries, I still have tricks up my sleeves. You'll see his mug below and why shave gel was the perfect prize for him.

I delivered Jacob at 34 weeks and 5 days gestation. He weighed in at 5 pounds 13 ounces...so little Griffin here might not be so little. I am 35 weeks and 3 days today-the word is babies can gain 1/2 to one pound a week in the final few weeks. So, if I hold off until my c-section date and hit the 37 week mark, I'd guess Griffin will be at least 7 pounds and it won't surprise me if he's much more of a heffer;-)

I'm definitely in the fun stage of wondering if he'll have hair, if he'll look like his brothers, etc. But, I'm also in the not so fun continued state of concern...it's just a "I know too much about labor, delivery, and childbirth" deal but it can be a real downer.

Today I have my long appointments (super triple ugh)-with monitoring, an ultrasound, and seeing my MD. Too bad frequent flyer miles or something can't be rewarded for the number of hours spent in his office. I will update if there is anything worthy afterwards. I also have montoring on Friday. I will then see him for a long appt one last time next Tuesday and then it's D'day on the 24th...the end is so in sight-11 days!!!

Onto Easter:

It was a nice weekend. We had great weather and I had a house filled with family. I was spoiled with gifts for Griffin and little surprises and such all through the weekend. Owen's response to Easter was probably my highlight though-he loved hunting eggs and trying new flavors and textures...he was all about the peeps. "These are good, mom, mmmmmmm." he said with such clarity and sincerity. "Fank-you".

Here are random pics from the 2 days:

Hope you had a nice Easter as well.

PS my spelling/grammar checker was down so this is the best proofing I could do at 8am;-)

Update on Surgery Date

2009-04-08T13:33:00.002-04:00

My c-section is actually scheduled for Friday April 24th at 7am...the countdown is on. This means I only have to survive through 2 more MD appts, 2 Ultrasounds to check the fluid level and 4 Non-stress tests to make sure Griffin's heart rate is in check...and I got a really awesome coupon for popcorn and soda at my local theater-things might just be looking up;-)

Update from the edge...

2009-04-08T00:27:00.002-04:00

...the edge of sanity, that is.

Yesterday was fine. Most of today was fine as well...then I went back to the at this point dreaded medical office where I receive prenatal care. So, the highlights were that Griffin's heart rate is still dropping (called a decel) from time to time but I am being told "it's nothing to worry about" *read here do you even know me to ask me not to worry*. My fluid dropped from 25 to 17, but I'm not supposed to find concern there either. Oh and the big iciing on the cake news: Griffin is breech again. Now wonder contractions 3 minutes apart aren't doing squat...no pressure on your cervix makes it harder to dilate.

I was scheduled for a c-section on April 28th at 9am.

I am to go into this fine medical establishment *read hell on earth* twice a week until I deliver...oh joy. If anyone has some extra padding (for my walls) or straight jackets lying around, I could use them ASAP.

I am sliding down a slippery slope of being blessed to be still pregnant to fearing that one of these times the decels that are "ok" will be past "ok"...I'm quite distraught over it.

I know this is a downer post...but in my defense, I left out a lot of worse downer junk and just thought I should update everyone on the current plan (which is likely a waste of thinking through).

If I don't post again this week, I hope everyone has a very blessed Easter.

Home now...

2009-04-05T11:34:00.001-04:00

I was released this am. I am going to nap now as last night wasn't "stellar" for sleep;-)

Hospital update

2009-04-04T21:53:00.003-04:00

I believe I mentioned in the last post that all plans are made to be changed...

I was right.

I believe I'll be back to blogging from home tomorrow. Griffin's heart rate has been stellar for the past 36 plus hours so, knock on laminate flooring (closest thing to wood to me) I'll be released in the morning.

At first, I was very distraught over the thought of going home since there's no wonderful momitor to "show" that Griffin is ok, but afer a gloomy, poor me day, God has given me peace and reasoning.

I don't have much to say other than wanting to update everyone with this latest news. If you are praying, please pray that when Griffin comes, he is healthy and that while I spend my days waiting for his arrival at home that I would enjoy my final days or weeks of carrying him (vs being the stressed lunatic I was this am:-).

Peace.

April Fool? Or maybe not so much...34 weeks update.

2009-04-03T11:50:00.003-04:00

Where to begin?

I am 34 weeks! Yay! The Ultrasound Wednesday morning showed Griffin to be 4 pounds 14 ounces. My fluid was high, but still normal and all seems to be fine with my gestational diabetes and blood pressure.

I woke up Wednesday morning (6am) contracting a way. I knew I was going to the MD's midmorning so I waited till my 9:30 appt. He confirmed that I was contracting but he decided at 34 weeks, with no obvious progression and me not needing pain medication, I would need to just tough it out-so we spent the day trying to keep me distracted.

Over the course of the day, the contractions were harder to be distracted from and eventually at 1am I could take no more (pain, no sleep=bad combo) so I went up to the hospital to be monitored and seeking something to help me relax a bit.

Griffin looked beautiful on the monitor, but I was indeed having 2-3 minute apart contractions-so I got some *good* meds and dozed a very little bit. The medicine wore off all too quickly and it was going again on 6am-no sleep in 24 hours plus lots of pain and concern=not a good combo.

So, my MD decided to give me a stronger shot that should induce sleep-hopefully 4 plus hours worth. I did get that delicious sleep I needed so badly and then thought I'd be released. But, as all plans are made to be changed, this plan of mine was not my MD's plan and he decided I should stay for another night of observation (boy, did I not see that coming). So, I surprisingly stayed through Thursday and thought that today, Friday, would be my day to finally head home...nope, not that plan either. Apparently, in the middle of the night while I was sleeping soundly (but on the monitor for Griffin), Griffin decided to get some attention for us. I had nurses in and out trying to change my positioning (to improve his heart rate) and I ended up with an IV...and being the L&D RN I am, I trended back thru the tracing to see lots of yucky decels in Grffin's heart rate and thus, I have felt very emotional over *ALL* of this. I've fought back tears since the wee hours of the morning. I have had specialized ultrasounds to confirm that Griffin is ok for the moment, but my MD is not comfortable sending me home...so the current plan is hospitalization until delivery and I could need a c-section at any moment...vaginal delivery is probably out of the equation now;-(

Anyway, the boys have come up to visit. I'm well stocked with some current Redbox titles. I'm sad and lonely yet comforted by close medical care. I've had lots of time to rest and think. I can't believe Griffin will be here so soon (I think:-).

So, that's my post about feeling like an "April fool" but apparently I wasn't and God has been the great physician protecting Griffin and I all along.

I can check comments and email from my hospital room but don't have my phone charger. Please pray for Tim as he's unexpectedly now Mr. Mom and Dad, etc for who knows how long.

Here's my happy picture (s) right now:

A special gift and clumsy me (again)...

2009-03-30T20:06:00.004-04:00

Look what I was blessed with today:

Isn't it precious? My wonderful friend and coworker Jessi made this for Griffin. It's so adorable and SOFT and it's HUGE! I held back tears as she gave it to me. It is the perfect gift (and she already gave me a bundle of cute clothes, sleepers, etc for him). Thank you dear friend-I can't express how much this gift means to me-now stay by your cell phone so I can reach you when the Griffster decides he needs his blankie;-) (I have asked her to be on call for me to be my nurse when labor strikes).

I made a yummy dinner tonight...it was marinated broiled steak (remember the free steak purchase?). I've never marinated and broiled steak, so this was a first. I was so glad it turned out. We were sitting down as a family and everyone was talking about their day, etc when out of no where steak sauce is flying in all directions. Why and how was this happening you may wonder? Well, I apparently am all thumbs lately (remember the Taco Bell pink shirt destruction post?)...my hand slipped off my fork as I was loading it for a nice big bite and my hand landed in the teaspoon of steak sauce on my plate-splattering it from here to there-seriously, no appliance was spared-no surface immune to my splattering-including my shirt and neck. TJ was concerned and asked what happened...Tim started laughing hysterically. Ha, ha. So funny.

Then, after dinner, my marathon working session with making my unit's schedule continued until I went to check TJ's work for a project...the poor kid worked all evening on it and the stinkin' computer locked up and it was all GONE! So sad. I'm glad today wasn't a crying day;-)

Let's go, let's go, let's go!!!

2009-03-26T13:33:00.009-04:00

***Updated***

This is what TJ chanted when we were in Mexico this past summer at an excursion off our Cruise ship. It was not a happy chant-but an irritated one as he mocked his father.

I am having a bad day (again)...but not as bad as this precious couple:

My baby sis Amanda and her beloved husband Jason (we call the BIL) were to leave on a flight for Mexico this morning.

I'd guess Amanda is not taking to heart my frugality related blog posts as she had to have her some McDonald's this morning before their arrival at the airport. Here is a snippet from the email I got from them:
Title: the $1500 egg mcmuffin

Amanda forces Jason to drive through Mc Donalds the morning of our sunny vacation, which in turn makes us arrive at the airport at our check-in post at 6:32... exactly two minutes late for our check in. Our gate is 100 yards away... but we can't get on;-(
More to come.

She may never live this down...I betcha Jason was justa runnin' and saying' "Let's go, let's go, let's go!

Necessito McDonalds? Me amo Egg McMuffin;-)

I'm lovin' it!

***Update***

While I'm not sure of the exact details, I believe maybe a rickety boat ride and fun ferry ride later, there are indeed now enjoying their Cozumel resort;-)

Here's the latest email: Title-let it be known

We finally made it (only 10-12 hours later than we expected)! After two plane rides, one stinky, scary bus ride, a tulmultous ferry journey and a exhausting cab ride later-We're here. Needless to say, the now infamous egg mc muffin cost more than we ever dreamed it would (This is a story Jason enjoys to tell way too much to go into all the details here--but I made us late for our check in by two minutes because we stopped at Mc Donalds before we went to the airport).

So far, we've slept late, ate breakfast overlooking the blue carribean sea, watched people while lounging by the pool and had an early before lunch snack. Heck--we might even take a NAP next. Enjoy your day:)

33 weeks and more deals...

2009-03-25T22:58:00.008-04:00

I am warped...

I have hidden links for coupons in here-but hurry, some expire 3-28-09:-)

I may be more excited about my deals I found today than being 33 whoppin' weeks along. What a journey it has been. I'm physically pretty good-current complaints would be some severe cramping in my legs, feet and hips. Kinda like charlie horses.

So emotionally-not so stable;-) I went to Taco Bell last night for drive-thru...it was a disaster. The line of cars was to the road, so I *ran* in. The line had 2 people in front of me but 3 waiting for food. 15 minutes later, I was walking out with my order. To which I ravishingly opened as I was driving away to feel a strange "wetness" on my favorite-just-about-the-only-thing-that-still-"fit" pink shirt...yay-grease. So much that Owen asked me when I got home-"mommy messy?"...yep-she is.
Here was the pink shirt-and this was like 3-4 weeks ago:

Anyway, back track to ordering. I ordered (no I am not exaggerating) 2 meximelts-easy beef (which means LESS meat), and a cinnamon twist-plus ONE fountain drink. The order taking gal says "for here or to go?"- if you can even believe this-she said, "of course, I'd be surprised if you could eat all that by yourself". Ugh! the nerve!!! Is she serious? It was like ordering 2 tacos and chips-that's not gluttony! Agree with me here-it's not, right? Well, imagine my surprise (not really) that the stupid meximelts were made with EXTRA freakin' beef (yuck) and the whole shirt thing was just gravy-man! Can you believe she said that?

And back to the pregnancy update, if I twittered or the like, I could probably pretty much tweet a false alarm or two each day. Last night, I soooo almost went into the hospital since I was sure the contractions wouldn't stop and yesterday, all I did was rest-*read*, sat my lazy hiney all the couch pretty much all day, using poor sick Jakey as the excuse*.

But, today I'm still pregnant and the contractions have been at bay so it was off to search for more great deals. I promise I am *not* bragging-I am instead totally stoked at how good of deals can be found when a little good ole fashioned patience and research are utilized---God is so good;-)

Here we go: Target-

$14.57 was the total of my receipt!!!
How? Of course you knew I'd explain...
Of interest would be-free steak (2)-it was not only on sale, but I had a coupon.
Free artisan bread (2)-again, coupon for $1 off...it was 99 cent bread!
The bill should've been about $60...literally only one item was bought that I did not have a coupon for and that was the little travel pack of band aids-these little gems by nexcare are the bomb...I couldn't not get them for 99 cents. They stick like mad and to date are the only product I can find that Owen will leave on-he is quite the picker when he has a boo-boo. These have a cute cars theme and I'll keep them in my purse.

Up next Walmart:

I needed a white colored TV cable, and I had a return so I decided to see how I could do (weired sounding sentence, eh?) My cable was $6.88. Jake has been with cough and fever for 2 days so I decided to spoil him with his *choice* of Popsicles-I couldn't coerce him into a sale item so he picked super heros ones for $3.48...if you're following along, that's over $10. Guess how much I paid for all the items in the photo? $11.01!!! Wa-who. The cereal was free, so was the mascara from the beloved ALL You mag and I even couldn't resist grabbing a 2nd copy (it was $2.24 minus 50 cent coupon) and I'll get another free mascara out of it, plus a few other can't pass up deals.
Here's what Jake thinks of his coupon cuttin' ma-ma:

He did his own hair today:-)

I will really try to stop the madness of the coupon posts. *I'll try*.

Happy Birthday Baby Sis!

2009-03-24T07:24:00.002-04:00

Just because you were born in the 80's doesn't mean you should still be driving in a car that you only fit in, in the 80's;-)

Happy Birthday AMANDA! Enjoy Mej-he-co! Ole!

Completely aware...

2009-03-23T22:39:00.005-04:00

I am.

I realize many of you think I've lost it...or never had it:-) Don't care...trying to survive my third trimester so here is how my day went.

My mom called this am some time after 9am...I was sleeping-Owen was playing happily in his bed (thank the GOOD Lord he loves morning time in his bed;-)

I finally got my toosh up and movin' and Owen and I headed off to get Jacob from preschool. Lunch was a FREE Roastburger with purchase of a fabulous fountain diet pepsi! As I was sitting there, I found that familiar feeling of the flood gate trying to open, but I fought it off *hard* and we quickly headed out of the store to our next destination.

Then we were off to Walgreens to pick up a prescription...I found some great deals there-lots of good clearnace items to give the boys some fun goodies in their Easter Buckets. As if I didn't learn anything from playing 64 crayon pick up last week, I got them this awesome set of 64 colored pencils with a built in sharpener on clearance. All this along with 3 packs free gum, buy 2 get 1 bubbles, free tomato soup, and 22 cent skittles and starbursts for their baskets. Walgreens (Creasy) has lots of great clearance items of randomness right now.

Then we headed off to Meijer, to see about a sale...we finished up at Meijer pretty quickly where I must say, stocking up on Ketchup, Pop tarts, peanut butter and waffles was a REALLY good deal. I also threw in some wipes and buddies soaps and made out for about $5...Tim wonders if I'm having some weird craving with the amount of PB, ketchup, waffles, and poptarts I bought.

Then, back at the ranch, I tidyed up, let the boys play outside (LOVING the fence) and I began work on a killer chili for dinner but was surprised by a spontaneous call from Kara at 5pm asking if I'd be able to escape with her for a bit and did I have any dinner coupons???...the answer was yes and yes and we totally went to TGIFridays and spent under $5 for full bellies and bladders. Here's how:

Hope the picture works-it was a sweet deal, that when you eat in the bar area and order ANY beverage, you can get a 1 cent appetizer each. Kara even sprang for me. SO , it was a fun time to chat and eat with such a good coupon;-) If the picture doesn't work and you really want to partake, I can fwd you the email that I got it from. I love deals.

Then it was back home to work (still making the schedule for CAH) and such...all in all, it was another good day:-)

FYI, the boys enjoyed their hot dinner and watching Bolt while I was gone-thank you redbox for FREE Movie Mondays!

Can't sleep...

2009-03-23T01:04:00.003-04:00

Well, in trying to lay off the sleeping pills (and actually feeling tired when I went to bed) I am now up since I can't sleep.

Thought I would go through a few things I've learned from my new couponing endeavor.

First off, I'm such a newbie...there are a million and one tips available if you search online.

So far, I have gotten a couple papers (yes, this week was dull with both ads and coupons) and I didn't even know (until late today) that the Indy paper has different/more coupons even in the same smart source insert.

Oh, let me back up a moment. What got me hooked was simply finding some awesome internet printable coupons...which did take some patience. Here are the 2 coupons from coupons.com that really made me think: (you do have to load their coupon printer to get started and you do have to have your printer on/ready with paper-but it does not need to be high quality print out nor color ink).

-The first are 2 huggies coupons...one for $5 off and one for $3 off. We don't even use Huggies diapers but the wipes are a great deal (most stores have them priced at $6 and $3 ish for these coupons)-I couldn't find any working links for them for you right no but I wonder if it's because I've hit my quota of print outs.

-The second one, which may seem silly was for Johnson's baby care products-again from the coupon printer -hopefully it will work for you...it is for baby products but did not limit it to only to baby stuff, I so I got soap buddies soaps with it. I found these at Target for 97 cents each (so they are free) and I've also gotten then at Meijer for about $1.17, but another coupon prints out each time, so essentially-we will never run out;-)

I've found Meijer meal box to have some good coupons-and Meijer doubles them if they are 50 cents are less. If you find something on sale and have a coupon, you can get select items for next to nothing and the great thing is there are lots of people on the internet who have all this stuff listed out for you (each week when the ad starts). So, pick you store (Target, Kmart, Meijer, etc and you can find multiple sources who have done ALL the homework!!!).

Target.com also has very limited printable grocery coupons but they have been pretty good so far.

I also found a tip about a magazine called All You which I believe is by Walmart-it was on the stand in the store for $2.49, plus 10% off ($2.24 I believe) and it had lots of GREAT coupons in it-including a free mascara coupon (up to $6.50) and many others. Again, many sites I've found even do all the leg work and tell you what is on sale where and where to get the coupon from. So, with a few weeks of patience and circular collecting, you will have all you need to really rake in some deals. Oh, and it has a coupon in it for 50 cents off your next copy;-).

The other advice I have would be to *be patient*...and organized. If the deal comes out Sunday, many smaller stores may be out of stock of the item by Monday. Rain checks are good and so is stopping back in periodically to check out the stock. I watched all week last week at Meijer for Lysol wipes...finally I got them Saturday night on the last day of the sale with my coupon. We had to go there anyway, so it was no big deal.

I also have found multiple food, etc coupons that make it more fun to go out-for instance, I signed up here and received an email for a free roast burger with drink purchase. It's valid for one per customer so Jake, me and Owen can eat at Arby's for the cost of 2 drinks and sharing a curly fry-not free but super cheap and yummy;-). If you can't stand giving out your email address, I would recommend you sign up for a yahoo email or something like that, that you check once per day and use for these deals. I had another tip from Jaime that when the Krispy Kreme Hot doughnuts now light is on, everyone who enters the store gets a free doughnut, no purchase necessary-but you all know I love a good fountain drink and they have (or did have) the best large coca cola cup ever. So, you can let the kiddos watch the doughnut maker machiney thing, sip a soda and eat a fresh hot doughnut-especially good plan for a rainy day;-)

Another cheap (or free) idea I mentioned to Tim tonight is heading over to the Menards off 38...it has a nice play area and we could grab a fountain coke on our way there (or nothing) and let the kids play while we talk. Menards also has some awesome freebies, deals, and rebates each week-so we are likely to head here soon for a "date".

Home depot has a neat free clinic (this Thursday though) for women to learn how to tile...I have no one to go with though:-) And if you sign up you get like a $10 off coupon or something-they also have kids clinics and so does Lowes...good ways to allow your kiddos experiences with tools with no expense nor mess.

I also found that walmart.com has a sample page link-I haven't rec'vd any yet but I've signed up for samples of crest whitestrips, huggies, formula, and much more and I know the samples will come with coupons;-).

I found this article helpful with other links on organizing coupons...

So far, I had clipped everything because I thought maybe a sale would come up, but then I read this and it explains to keep the coupons/circular in tact and save it dated so when you find the deal and it's listed as the smart source circular from 3/21, you'll find it easily;-) Hope this makes sense.

One last thing I've done so far is if I know I am going to buy something, I just search the item online first to see if I can find a coupon for it. For example, I am supposed to make cookies for an upcoming event. But, I know that pillsbury and nestle's go on good sales sometimes, so I watched for them to go on sale and for coupons and ended up with enough packages of cookie dough to make tons of cookies for less than $5...which has to be cheaper (and easier) than making them from scratch!

Definitely try this website and follow her links if you are serious about trying this out...it should start out slowly and pick up for you if you want to make it work-if not, no biggie;-).

I hope this random but jam packed couponing post helped some...I think it'll help me go to sleep now that it's off my chest;-)

Oh, anyone want to bring over their kiddos and help move rocks? Sounds silly, but we have some landscape rocks to move and it's supposed to be not too hot this week, so I am going to bribe my kiddos to help me;-)

One more thing, Tim found that the Indy zoo has a family membership that makes like more than one trip worth it so we are tossing that around...no vacas for us this summer so a few trips to the zoo and butterfly gardens would be a great alternative-he also said their is a limited time only Komodo (probably spelled wrong;-) dragon exhibit...who knows-maybe we'll spend many a day at the zoo this summer (with PB&J and free cheetos from Target

So, do you have any ideas for me? I'd love to hear them;-)

32 weeks and 3 days

2009-03-22T17:06:00.002-04:00

This is the gestation I am today.

This is the gestation Owen was born at on November 3rd, 2006...just a little over 28 months ago.

I had severe preeclampsia and had to have an emergency c-section to save both mine and Owen's lives.

Praise God that today it appears both Griffin and I are completely healthy and I show no signs of preeclampsia.

Today as I am 32 and 3 days gestation, the weather is beautiful. We enjoyed a great sermon at church. I browsed through the Sunday paper. We ate BK for lunch.

I made a yummy dump cake for dinner tonight with one of our Pastors and his wife.

We have childcare for the boys so we can enjoy dinner.

The boys are playing in our newly fenced back yard.

As I type, I can feel the breeze coming through the window. The aroma of the house is that of cinnamon hard candy that I made a double batch of for an upcoming women's retreat that I hope to get to go to.

It's just an all around good day. No tears today. No emergency deliveries of 2 pound babes...not for us anyway.

Praise God for this beautiful, healthy day.

32 weeks update

2009-03-19T19:37:00.003-04:00

It was a boo-who type of day. I had my MD appt this am and had to take the boys with me, which is misery. It really is so fun to crawl around an office floor and pick up an entire 64 pack of crayons...really.

So, I felt the welling of tears as I waited...and waited...and waited for the MD to come in. I was, however, thankful that we were called back to an exam room quickly so we didn't disturb every woman receiving care in the office building waiting room for long.

I had a long list of things to talk to my MD about, including the rumors of his departure this summer. I couldn't even get out the sentence without bawling like a baby. Then, it was like a broken faucet-I just couldn't turn off the tears the rest of the day. I have managed to be less "red-faced" tonight while we had a VERY old, very hard of hearing lady here notarizing our refinancing loan/mortgage thingy-my wonderful husband (truly) has followed all this stuff forever and got us a super sweet mortgage rate, etc (things I am clueless on). I don't want to get old.

So, the appt update goes like this:

I am apparently a sleeping pill junkie. My MD said I'm fine and we both believe I will be able to sleep again once the bay is born (ha, ha, ha) -at least without sleep aides, but my insurance company doesn't think I need more Ambien-poo on them.

There is a test routinely done on pregnant women at 36 weeks called GBS and I asked about how early you can get it (if it's positive or if you go untreated, you may receive antibiotics in labor and the baby gets blood draws)...so I found out that it is good for 4-5 weeks and then they just retest, but due to my crying, he forgot to do it today so I'll get it in 2 weeks when I return-on April Fool's day, more good fun. I also will receive a non-stress test (monitoring of the baby's heart rate) and an ultrasound for growth that day...I will definitely have childcare for that marathon visit!!!!

I measured 34 WEEKS! I feel every bit of it too! He examined my cervix and tried to figure out if Griffin is head down-he thought so (*PRAISE*) but from the feel of the exam-I don't think my cervix was too concerning yet;-)

When they do a pelvic exam that give you a sheet to cover up with. The way the chairs in the room are positioned are up near ones head and that's where the boys were sitting. When the doctor entered the room with his nurse, Jacob covered his eyes and said "I can't watch, I can't watch!" We were all so tickled. I assured him that I was covered by the sheet and that the MD was just checking on Griffin (sounds reasonable, right?). Everyone got a quite a chuckle as I tried to make jokes like the doctor doesn't want to watch either, good thin there's nothing to see here and I gave Jake a hard time saying we still shower together (rarley but sometimes)...how funny and sensitive a day it was all around!

When being weighed, I took off my jacket and shoes today and that helped me to only have them record 1 pound gained over the past 2 weeks;-)

He also decided to give me a round of steroid injections to help he baby's lungs mature in case he decides to arrive before 37 weeks (very likely) and I think the nurse who was in charge of getting this done had never done ANY of it before as I ended up being sent to the hospital for the injection...waiting for that verdict was hell on earth in a 8 x 8 room with tile floors and like 20 foot echoey ceilings and my 2 boys. Jacob had a melt down and said he didn't care about anyone but himself (ahhh the honesty of a confined 5 year old).

Then we went over to the hospital for the injection (oh, the one that feels like you are getting a bone marrow biopsy from your "hip" *read BUTT*-that took another marathon wait, with two very over "smartie" fed boys. They rearranged the lobby furniture and dusted the floors with their clothes and I found myself still unable to contain the flood gates. Even the manager of the intake area came out to try to make things better (shots and such are usually prescheduled and not Borics type walk-ins;-). They also finally put me in a room where there was THANK GOD a TV with Dora on it. Oh how I was ever so happy for Nickelodeon!!! The poor staff really must've thought I was a basket case (I was) and they tried very hard (to get us on our way:-)...finally nearly 3 hours after our planned MD visit time, we were heading home, I fed the boys lunch and EVERYONE laid down.

On a funny note-did you see yesterday's post? I think Owen was super cute but my sis mentioned him having this guys hair from this movie and then today (before I starting sobbing uncontrollably in front of my MD) he said, hey-Owen's hair looks like that guy from that 80's movie- HAH! How funny! Are you so singing from that movie right now?

So, you have days where you cry alot- right? At least when you were pregnant, right? Play along here-I'm apparently fragile *read unstable*.

And, do you plan funerals? I was sure that Tim had been killed in a fiery crash on his way home from his meeting as he was late-boy, would that have given me something to cry about;-(

I will repeat the shot process at noon tomorrow since it's a 2 time dose...mad fun.

What an uplifting *read whiny* update.

I really *REALY* am glad to still be growing this baby-I don't know if those who live with me are, but I am:-)

Feeling lucky?

2009-03-18T20:14:00.008-04:00

TJ sure is...he found a 4 leaf clover today-I didn't have my camera and it wilted already (I think) but what a good sighted little boy (he's 9).

And to continue with my St. Patrick's day ranting, here are pix from my efforts:

My dinky doozies and jigglers:

The cutest leprechaun:

Such a BIG boy!!!:

Such a mischievous boy:

Where's Owen?

Peek-A-Boo (will this game ever get old?)

Okay, so to outline more about my getting bitten by the coupon bug:

So, I went to a ladies brunch about a month or two ago. Two ladies spoke on how they save for their families with coupons. I was sooo skeptical but I kept their ideas in the back of my mind. One mentioned the Sunday paper-which, we don't get and I rarely think to go out and get. The other mentioned a website (which I have linked below, money saving mom). I checked it out that very day but wasn't all that impressed. So, I've checked the website for a while now and finally it clicked-it is more about patience than a quick fix with couponing. I started off small with an unbeatable huggies deal-it's on coupons.com and it's for $5 off gentle care products-which includes wipes!!! So, long story short, and 2 Sunday papers and many printable internet coupons later...I'm hooked. I will try to stop the insanity with sharing my hot shopping trips but here is what I spent today and how I saved (I'm able to share this because they were pretty small, quick trips and I stuck to my lists!!!).

Target:

Huggies natural wipes (2) $2.39 each ($3 off coupons from coupons.com) ***-most stores give you face value-I don't believe you should try to make money from coupons so when you use them, they should type in the amount and not give the full $3 off for $2.39) total FREE

Clorox bleach 1.66 (just on sale)

Snack size cheetos (1) $1.29 ($1 off target.com coupon) total 29 cents

5 pound bag of russett potatoes (1) $2 (item was on sale and used $1 off target.com coupon) total $1

Small loaf artisan french bread (1) FREE (item was 99 cents and I used the $1 off target.com coupon

6 pack of Motts strawberry applesauce (1) 1.69 (I used a $1 off target.com coupon) total 69 cents

Total paid $3.64

Meijer trip (they double coupons up to 50 cents:

2 more wipes at 2.39 each (free after coupon.com coupons)

2 gentle care wipes at $5.99 each -total paid $1 each (after coupons.com coupons)

Lysol wipes (2) half off deal/sales at meijer right now 4.98-minus coupons-I think from finish.com (a cleaning product website and I got the tip from real simple saving methods blog-linked to the side)

lysol toilet bowl cleaner (2) at 1.17 each (1/2 price sale plus coupon as above)

Easter colored chocolate candies from the bulk section on sale from usual $4.99 per pound to right now 99 cents per pound (for easter dinky doozies) total paid 35 cents

Lysol kitchen cleaner 1.29 (half price sale plus coupon from finish website)

lysol all purpose cleaner 1.49 (half price sale plus coupon from finish website)

2 jet dry dishwasher cleaner (sale $6 for 2 plus coupon from finish website)

2 jet dry drying agent apple scent (sale $6 for 2 plus coupon from finish website)

3 Johnsons buddies soap 1.17 each (had 2 coupons 1 for $1 off one and one for $2 off 2) paid 51 cents total on 3

my coupons were worth 26.55 (with the doubling etc) and she took them all off.

paid 16.17 total for all of this;-)

It does take a little time to get used to it but I have done most of my homework while watching AI or HGTV at night once the boys are in bed.

Hope this helped some and if you have more q's, I'll try. I don't plan on always stocking up on cleaners and such but now is a great time. If you happen to log onto coupons.com and don't need the Huggies coupons, I'd love to have them-I think you can print 2 or 3 per printer;-)

I will hopefully post a good report and 32 weeks update tomorrow after my MD appt.

Saving (and spending) is super fun! Plus going GREEN!

2009-03-16T21:49:00.002-04:00

Tim blessed me this evening by letting me go to the grocery store all alone-I had forgotten what it was like to not go to the bakery for the "bribery" cookie, not checking the cart every 2 seconds to make sure Owen is still safe (he's like Houdini in his ability to contort his way out of the seat belt), and that my purse is in tact, and not telling the boys to quiet down and not fight the WHOLE trip. Not to mention the time savings by not having to take them to the bathroom or just have them as a distraction. Plus, there were a million crying kids-AND NONE OF THEM WERE MINE!!!!

Anyway, I just wanted to share how much fun it has been to use/save/find coupons the past couple weeks. I used to not think it was worth the time and I was also a non-believer of their value since I thought I'd get things we wouldn't use-just because it was a good deal. I must say-I did get some things I otherwise wouldn't have but they were free or next to free and frankly REALLY good deals.

Here's a run down of what I got for about $60!!!

2 huge packs of huggies wipes refills
free pack of wrigleys gum
2 johnsons soap buddies for the boys (34 cents total)
39 cent mustard
glass plus
2 cans pringles
carpet spot cleaner
a huge family pack of boneless ribs
4 warm delights for Tim (45 cents each)
2 tubes of free crest
baby carrots
sour cream
bag of ready to eat salad
lysol cleaner
kitchen cleaner
lysol bathroom cleaner
lysol toilet cleaner
lysol all purpose cleaner
4 bags of Dominos powdered sugar
shampoo and conditioner-herbal essence I think
old english cleaner
pledge wipes
6 packages of various fruit by the foot, fruit roll ups etc.
2 boxes electrosol dishwashing detergent
3 cases diet pepsi;-) guilty pleasure-caff free of course;-)
2 jars applesauce
2 cake mixes

Isn't that awesome??? I would've taken a picture of it all but I thought tat might be over the top;-) It would've all been over $125 if I'd have not had coupons plus the sales. I'm sure I could've spent less but we won't need cleaners now forever plus some of the items (like the fruit roll-ups and warm delights) were things I usually wouldn't have bought.

I also have plans for tomorrow to make the boys "double doozies" which are cookie sandwiches (I'm using tollhouse break apart minis with green m&m's) with iciing in the middle-yum! I'm also making green jiggles and maybe pistachio pudding. Our meal will be turkey loaf (not gross like it sounds;-), green mashed potatoes, and green peas-believe it or not-one of my fams fav meals.

I'm actually going to make a yummy lunch too-baked ribs, parmesan noodles, and salad with Olive garden italian dressing.

So that's how I'm going green tomorrow;-) How bout you?

Thanks to everyone for playing the Griffin game so far...there's still time to vote!

31 weeks!

2009-03-12T00:43:00.004-04:00

No doctors appointments this week...really not much of anything going on-which is great! So, I've been playing around on the blog some...will you play along? I added a box (right side bar) from expect.net as well (mom, Amanda, and others who NEVER comment PLEASE play too!).

I "stole" this idea from Lindsay over at Not2Us.net and while it's getting close-there's hopefully plenty of time...and while I'm a slacker and bad at following through, I thought I'd attach a small prize to the winning guess (I don't know what yet since I just thought up this grand idea;-) so please click the link and play along-I believe you want the LOWEST score and guess when Griffin will arrive with date and time and how much he'll weigh and measure in inches.

Just for previous stats:

TJ was 5 days over due. He weighed 8 pounds 3 ounces. He was 20 1/2 inches long.
Jacob was 5 1/2 weeks early. He weighed 5 pounds 13 ounces. He was 18 inches long.
Owen was 8 weeks early. He weighed 2 pounds 13 ounces. He was 14 1/4 inches long.

I think you have to enter an email address and password to play, but I've never received junk email from this site-I think it's just for stat reasons;-) Actually, I just tried it, and you don't even have to register;-) So click the link and guess for me:-)

Would still love more sling ideas and St. Patrick's day ideas (see recent post).

I think Jacob is coming down with something (fever tonight) so tomorrow (Thursday) may be a long day of Scooby episodes and lying around.

Oh and while I trail off...AI was pleasantly surprising tonight (results show)-and I'm liking the new rule. What about you?

Have a thankful Thursday!

Temporary new blog design...

2009-03-10T22:28:00.002-04:00

I sure tried to come up with a fresh new blog design...however, I lost all my widgets doing it. It is a temporary design anyway, since Griffin needs added-but what a bummer to lose all my cool links and blogging buddies. I would really love to re-add everything-if I had a cool feature or if you want your blog "re-added", please let me know-don't not tell me...I really want to reset everything. And, if you have any idea how I can NOT lose everything next time, please let me know.

Hugs!

Tidbits for Tuesday

2009-03-10T16:40:00.004-04:00

It doesn't feel like a Tuesday for me but I am struck with lots of random thoughts so, here's insight into my simple thoughts -in no particular order:

St. Patrick's day: It's just a week away...and I'm not Irish. However, after reading a post from friend Amy (see link below)-or since I couldn't find it, maybe it was a facebook entry regarding her inspiring V-day ideas, I'm looking for creative things (low to no cost) to do on St Patricks day. Obviously, I can think of green milk, green mashed potatoes and green jigglers-but if you think of other fun things, please leave a comment (or email me) so I can make St Patty's day special.

Crafts-on a similar note, I am looking for other fun, easy crafts to fill our rainy and boring days with...nothing high cost but maybe something proven that is not your typical cookie baking, play dough making (which I believe is of the devil;->, etc type stuff.

Deals-do you shop for super deals or free after rebate stuff? I thought this would be fun to get into but I'm finding it to be time consuming and irritating because the items are often out when I go to get them. I called Tim today to ask him what his definition of One per purchase was and I got an earful! Boy was he ticked. Apparently, their are lots of people in Lafayette (and probably everywhere) who will take a coupon or rebate and buy up everything the store has, daily at times and not leaving any for anyone else. The reason that I am ticked about this also is because we went to this place called Trader Bucks Flea Market Saturday and found out where all this free after rebate, etc stuff goes-they snatch it up and resale it...I'm all about first come first served, but come on! How selfish and rude. Since I'm on my soap box, I'll say, it's people like this that make things like coupons and Internet deals a fleeting idea.

Amy-As I mentioned above, my friend Amy is a creative and sweet momma to Alex (a buddy of Jake's) who I have mentioned here before...you may remember her as being Lydia's mommy...anyway-she had a very neat post last night and the picture says it all-such heart warming photo!

Seat belts/Toyota-As a preface, all is fine, but, I was rear-ended yesterday. I was taking TJ to school from a dental appt and bam! a young lady was not paying attention and hit us while we were stopped at a red light. My initial (very pregnant) reaction was to start crying...she hit us quite hard and I was in shock. Not literally and we are all very thankful that no obvious damage was done to the van, nor any of us (it was me, TJ and Owen in the van) but it definitely made me think about the brevity of life and how things can change in an instant. It reminded me t be grateful for a super safe vehicle (Thanks Toyota!) and for seat belts-I'm shocked mine didn't leave strap marks it pulled so hard across my belly...we did not need to seek medical care or anything but it was scary.

Pilgrim project-TJ has a project for school where he had to pick from a list of historical figures...I'd guess he'd pick Washington or Lincoln or someone really well recognized-but noooo...he picked *MILES STANDISH* -my first thought-who the heck was Miles Standish? Do you know without googling him? Well, he was a Pilgrim and part of the assignment is to make a 3-D project that represents the figure...what? How will he (read I;-) pull that one off? Well, I asked his teacher for ideas because I really want *him* to "do" the project...so she gave me some brilliant ideas and really got my creativity going. TJ is working on making a garden plot because Miles apparently grew food to feed his fellow pilgrims (though t what he was primarily known for) and it is a project he can do almost solely on his own. We also shopped at Goodwill for "pilgrim" clothes because he is supposed to dress up as Miles for a speech. All he still needs is a pilgrim type hat. If you have any great ideas that aren't construction paper related, let me know...it needs to be durable enough to make it thru a whole day of school and I know my Teej...a paper hat won't make it out the door:-) Oh, and we are looking for ideas for a red beard as Miles apparently had a red beard-anyone?

AI: Was anyone else relieved that Crapiana was not chosen for the top 12...can you believe that I'm so slow on the uptake that I didn't even realize the judges chose 4 wild card contestants instead of just the 3 that they were supposed to choose to make 12 (VS the final 13 they now have). The picks were ok, but a little surprising. Looking forward to tonight's round and of course Kim's following blog post about her thoughts regarding the episode-she's a riot;-)

Sling: I'm still looking for sling advice. I purchased the munchkin one from Walmart.com (it is a one piece, no straps or clips). It doesn't feel right-it seems way small and snug-not just comfy for baby, but SNUG. So, please send more advice;-)

Well, Tim has arrived home so we will heat up some de-lish BBQ from Sams...looking forward to any comments about my tidbits;-)